ALL ABOUT: miscarriage, abortion, DnC

AnitaSabrina

Shima, I have been through a similar experience.

I pegi private clinic kat Wangsa Maju - Damai Hospital.  Confirm pregnancy. Pastu after one week pegi scan dr cakap tak ada heartbeat. Dia suruh schedule dnc.  Sakit jiwa betul masa tu.  Nak sangat baby.  Hubby was with me.  So we sat in the car and cried.  Kelakar pulak when I think back.

Anyway, to cut long story short, I called my sister yang kerja kat Universiti Hospital.  It was a Saturday.  She told me not to agree to dnc and come to UH immediately.

So we drove there.  Sampai dah pukul 12 tengah hari.  My sis managed to get hold of her specialist gynae friend (Prf KB Ng - ingat lagi nama dr ni).  Prof KB Ng did a scan using high-tech machine (definitely better than kat Damai).  And we saw my baby's heartbeat.  According to the calculation masa tu dah about 7 weeks.  But baby was about 6 weeks - that's why the scan kat clinic tu tak dapat detect baby's heartbeat.  

The atmosphere in the room was priceless.  Something I'll never forget for as long as I live.  Hubby was in tears and speechless.

My advice, tabahkan hati.  Relax lots. And redhakan apa-apa ketentuan Allah for you.  Don't rush the dnc.  Make sure you get second, third or even fourth opinion before you do it.

I have a friend that did dnc at dr's advise at her first pregnancy and sampai sekarang tak lekat.  Each time around 9 weeks foetus will miscarry.  The dnc had damaged her uterus.  

All the best & may you baby thrive.

mek_ja

Originally posted by petite_adry at 8-8-2008 01:28 PM
ekekek.... aku nk anak 3 je, ekonomi tk mengizinkan....

aku lak nak ramai..bak ekonomi ..insyaallah mengizinkan
cuma ..umur aku la pulak mcm x mengizinkan
x kan le tiap2 thn aku kena branak semata-mata nak kejar quata aku

kitty_c@t

huhu aku ada 4 tahun lagi je nak kejar ke 35 tu... lepas 2 kali lagi kire okeh laaaa... buleh ada 3 anak pun cukup lah pastu trus stop banak... maintain body plak miahahahah...

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kitty_c@t

heheh by the time ko dah branak 3 korang laki bini rezeki dah bertambah dah... jangan risao... ada baby ada lah rezeki dia...

AznieBunnie

i do hope lepas ni my rezeki murah mcm kawan awak tu...

taun depan dah 3 dekad... giler ah sorang anak pun tak ada lagi...
asyik dapat anak 'trial pack' jer...

petite_adry

produce la anak tiap2 thn mek.... aku sokong ko......

petite_adry

Insyallah... aminnnnn......

imama

Originally posted by AznieBunnie at 11-8-2008 09:44 AM
i do hope lepas ni my rezeki murah mcm kawan awak tu...

taun depan dah 3 dekad... giler ah sorang anak pun tak ada lagi...
asyik dapat anak 'trial pack' jer...

insyaAllah ada la rezki kt mana2 tu.. samaada cpt n lmbt je.. skrg ni teknologi pn da moden.. mcm2 cr bleh try..   

member ima tu speed fast n furious tu kan nye ape.. gara2 nk jg bdn je.. ye la by dat time metabolism pun xbrapa tggi.. kang ssh plak nk slim..

imama

Originally posted by kitty_c@t at 9-8-2008 10:29 AM
heheh by the time ko dah branak 3 korang laki bini rezeki dah bertambah dah... jangan risao... ada baby ada lah rezeki dia...

btol2.. ima sokonggggg

arinieva

tetibe sy terpikir.. bln feb thn nie sy penah miscarriage tp x uat dnc check kt hosp putrajaya doc kate x yh dnc coz miscarriage dh complete dia just bg ubat jek utk elak kuman.. after that berpantang cm biase.. 1 month later sy period cm biase (on march) masuk apr, im not period then check up back kt private klinik yg member suggest then doc confirm im pegnen 5 weeks. so skrg nie sy dh 4 mth pegnen.

soalannyer... it's ok i'm not done the dnc ms yg sy miscarriage dulu? so far bile scan ngan doc private tu sume ok.. but tetibe terpikir lak x uat dnc tu kot2 affect my baby

GubRa_80

Originally posted by arinieva at 13-8-2008 11:28 AM
tetibe sy terpikir.. bln feb thn nie sy penah miscarriage tp x uat dnc check kt hosp putrajaya doc kate x yh dnc coz miscarriage dh complete dia just bg ubat jek utk elak kuman.. after that berpa ...

no problem.....i tak buat D& C sbb dah complete kuar abih...alhamdulillah dah kuar pun si comel ku....dah masuk 8 mos dah

petite_adry

tkp, tkd hal pon kalo tk buat dnc sbb gynea dh sahkan u dh complete miscarriage.... dh tkd sisa2 lg dh..... should be ok kalo u nk trs peknen.... kalo dnc, rahim kite kena kikis so jd menipis.... tu yg better tunggu 2-3bln utk recover blk....

petite_adry

tkp, tkd hal pon kalo tk buat dnc sbb gynea dh sahkan u dh complete miscarriage.... dh tkd sisa2 lg dh..... should be ok kalo u nk trs peknen.... kalo dnc, rahim kite kena kikis so jd menipis.... tu yg better tunggu 2-3bln utk recover blk....

mulberi

D&C ni dibuat kalo ade mende yg terlekat/ tertinggal kt dlm rahim mase miscarriege tu jek..  Kalo doc dah scan, tgk semuanya clear, it's ok la.. takde ape2 yg nk dirisaukan.. Tak semestinya tiap kali miscarrige nk kena D&C.
Mul dulu 1st miscarrige, kena D&C tp yg second tak kena sbb semuanya dah keluar sendiri.. Huhu sakit mcm nk beranak..
Thniah ehh.. sbb dah peknen semula.. & all the best..

mulberi

Dlm ramai2 ni, Mul paling kagum dgn Aznie tauu.. Kuatnya semangat Aznie.. Nk tk nk, hidup tetap diteruskan.. betul tak Aznie? Tp Aznie, percayalah.. org yg bresabar tu, ganjarannya pasti besar.. Kalo tak kat dunia ni, kat akhrat sana dah ramai yg menghulur tgn utk menyambut kedtgn ibu mereka yg tercinta.. Ape pon, Mul tetap doakan moga2 Allah kurniakan zuriat buat Aznie & suami, sehingga dapat melihat mereka membesar sempurna di depan mata..
Uwaaaaa.. den pulak yg sodeyyyy  

kunnut

Baru2 ni aku miscarriage....usia kandungan dlm 4weeks. Pergilah Hospital Serdang.....Tapi yang menyedihkan boleh pula tu Pegawai perubatan ni suh aku balik tunggu sampai darah byk baru boleh dtg semula. Padahal time tu darah dah mencurah2 mcm pili paip. Sedih sgt masa tu...tapi gagahkan jgk balik umah.

Nasib baiklah abg ipar seorg doctor(tp tak keja kat sini le). Call dia tya apa procedure yg patut sbb tak mampu le nak ke private hospital. So dia cadangkan tunggu dlm 4jam biar darah ketul2 tu keluar n klu sakit berterusan baru pi hospital.

Alhamdulillah tak smpi 4 jam darah ketul2 tu dh keluar...lega rasanya....then esoknya br pi klinik scan n check rahim. Doctor mmg tahu klu usia kandungan tak sampai 3 bulan tak perlu lalui dnc ni sebabnya kandungan tu boleh gugur natural mcm period biasa. Yang kena buat dnc ni klu usia kandungan lebih 3 bulan .Mayb blom rezeki lagi...

kunnut

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arinieva

ooo.. cmtu.. tq sume.. ms sy miscarriage tu br 7 weeks ++. tp betul la time seblm kuar darah yg ketul2 tu sakitnyer perut x leh nk baring x leh nk diri sume x kene. but alhamdulillah skrg dh de si tecik dlm perut

shimaf1

Originally posted by AnitaSabrina at 8-8-2008 10:42 PM
Shima, I have been through a similar experience.

I pegi private clinic kat Wangsa Maju - Damai Hospital.  Confirmpregnancy. Pastu after one week pegi scan dr cakap tak ada heartbeat.Dia suruh schedule dnc.  Sakit jiwa betul masa tu.  Nak sangat [color=#ff00 ! important][color=#ff00 ! important]baby.  Hubby was with me.  So we sat in the car and cried.  Kelakar pulak when I think back.

Anyway, to cut long story short, I called my sister yang kerja katUniversiti Hospital.  It was a Saturday.  She told me not to agree todnc and come to UH immediately.

So we drove there.  Sampai dah pukul 12 tengah hari.  My sis managed toget hold of her specialist gynae friend (Prf KB Ng - ingat lagi nama drni).  Prof KB Ng did a scan using high-tech machine (definitely betterthan kat Damai).  And we saw my baby's heartbeat.  According to thecalculation masa tu dah about 7 weeks.  But baby was about 6 weeks -that's why the scan kat clinic tu tak dapat detect baby's heartbeat.  

The atmosphere in the room was priceless.  Something I'll never forgetfor as long as I live.  Hubby was in tears and speechless.

My advice, tabahkan hati.  Relax lots. And redhakan apa-apa ketentuanAllah for you.  Don't rush the dnc.  Make sure you get second, third oreven fourth opinion before you do it.

I have a friend that did dnc at dr's advise at her first pregnancy andsampai sekarang tak lekat.  Each time around 9 weeks foetus willmiscarry.  The dnc had damaged her uterus.  

All the best & may you baby thrive.

tq 4 ur advise... erm.. mmg pening bila dgr org sana sini bercakap.. u patut buat ni.. then lain plak cakap u patut buat tu... org x tau masalah kita.. ye duit boleh dicari.. kesihatan lagi penting tp kita kene juga ukur baju dibadan sendri.. susah ati.. mmg la.. sbb kandungan aku x leh nak bertahan lama.. after 8 weeks je mula ade masalah.. dia x membesar.. org yg tak hadapi mmg x paham...

4 ur info.. aku dah cuba dptkan 3rd opinion.. cuma unfortunately doc pakar yg attend case aku masa2nd misscarriege tu gi chiang mai... this 16 baru balik.. aku wat kat hospital ipoh.. since hubby aku pun kat sana.. now aku dah keje 2 hari.. sbb xde cuti.. nak minta annual leave bukan x leh.. tapi kesian kat budak2 opis.. bos asyik taufan karina je... soo 4 this week aku keje utk 3 ari je.. weekend ni hubby aku ambik aku bawak balik ipoh utk 3rd apptmnt and probably dnc.. cuma takut carry lama2.. coz ade yg cakap leh infection..entah la.. aku redha je la.. xde perasaan.. pasal keje aku bulan 10 ni aku akan lepaskan jawatan aku.. lantak la ape nak jd pun jd la.. aku perlukan langkah baru di tempat baru...

petite_adry

saya aritu pon miscariage masa 7-8wks, tp darah tk kuar pon, gynea sahkan miss abortion (kandungan tk jadi) heart beat pon tkd....

so dok kt ward, nurse masukkn ubat kt tut, kasi kuarkan darah.... die siap pesan lg, aku akan rasa sakit time darah kuar tu, tp aku skit pon tk rasa sakit...... siap tunggu lg, bile aku nk rasa sakit nih, tau2 darah ketoi2 dh kuar.... smpai terbocor pad.....

jadi tk semestinya masa darah kuar tu kite akan rasa sakit perut, tgk pada individu gak......