Post time 12-12-2023 10:03 PMFrom the mobile phone|Show all posts
dio5774 replied at 11-12-2023 08:43 AM
Soalan serious.kalau perempuan cerai lama2 tak sanggap ke
Hai kwn i ckp x.. sbb masa kawen pon dia komplen sakit.. mula2 ingat sbb vaginismus tp lpas i teman g pjbat agama i rasa suami dia jnis syok sndiri la.. yg beberapa minit tu.. xpdan ngan nafkah x cukup... 3 org dh pisah mslah lelaki x provide nafkah minimum.. lpas single balik lg kaya dr berumahtangga..masing2 ank 1
Post time 12-12-2023 10:36 PMFrom the mobile phone|Show all posts
kakikuDibibirmu replied at 12-12-2023 10:00 PM
Masih lagi simpan sex toys dalam laci sebelah katil tidur kettewww?
Ada.. simpan dlm kotak elok2 tp bukan sebelah katil tido, sbb pedester tepi katil tu semua stok2 skincare tersusun penuh..
Sextoys yang dah rosak kena la buang... memana yang kawan2 i kasi yg deme beli from timesquare tu mmg cepat rosak... baju2 cosplay pun dah repot... gittewwww... almaklumlah dah almost 6 yrs dah kawen.. sume tu wedding gift...
i notice brand anne summers UK tu high quality... yang made in japan pun elok...
Post time 12-12-2023 10:40 PMFrom the mobile phone|Show all posts
talapia replied at 12-12-2023 05:00 PM
zaman sekarang ni.. perempuan independent.. so kalau tak kawin pon apadehal gitu...
kena pulak yg da ...
Takpe, kekawan yg dah kawen tu bila anak dah besar sikit mmg pandai la diaorg carik member balik. Macam i nya bff past decade mmg xde istilah nak hangout sebab dia stay home mum. Ni anak2 dah besar pandai urus diri start nak berjimba ngan i balik
Post time 13-12-2023 06:57 AMFrom the mobile phone|Show all posts
green~tea replied at 12-12-2023 09:39 AM
Dalam hal ni aku setuju dengan ko.. ramai perempuan ada PRINCESS SYNDROME
Asal lelaki je.. kena ...
Mana hang dpt si ayah pompan yg kena tanggung kenduri kawen?
Sahih al-Bukhari 5155
Narrated Anas:
The Prophet (ﷺ) saw the traces of Sufra (yellow perfume) on `Abdur-Rahman bin `Auf and said, "What is this?" `Abdur-Rahman, said, "I have married a woman and have paid gold equal to the weight of a datestone (as her Mahr). The Prophet (ﷺ) said to him, "May Allah bless you: Offer a wedding banquet even with one sheep."
Sahih Muslim 1427 b
Anas b. Malik (Allah be pleasedwith him) reported that 'Abd al-Rahman b. 'Auf (Allah be pleased with him) married during the lifetime of Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) for a nawat weight of gold and the messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said to him:
Give a feast even with a sheep.
Who has to organise the wedding party and waleemah? Is it the family of the groom or the family of the bride?.
Answer
Praise be to Allah.
The basic principle with regard to the wedding feast (waleemah) is that it should be organized by the husband, because he is the one who is enjoined to do that, as it was narrated by al-Bukhaari (5155) and Muslim (1427) that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said to ‘Abd al-Rahmaan ibn ‘Awf: “May Allah bless you. Give a waleemah even if it is with just one sheep.”
Shaykh Ibn ‘Uthaymeen (may Allah have mercy on him) said: It (the waleemah) is prescribed for the husband, because the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said to ‘Abd al-Rahmaan ibn ‘Awf (may Allah be pleased with him): “Give a waleemah,” and he did not tell his in-laws to do that. And because the blessing is greater for the husband than for the wife, because he is the one who sought the woman; it is very rare for the woman to seek the man. End quote from al-Sharh al-Mumti’, 12/321.
And he (may Allah have mercy on him) said: The questioner’s stating that responding to an invitation to a wedding feast is obligatory does not apply in all cases; rather that refers to the wedding feast that is offered by the husband. Accepting an invitation to this feast is obligatory. Similarly, if it is organised jointly between the husband and the woman's family, accepting the invitation to it is obligatory, because the husband is the one who is enjoined to provide the wedding feast, because the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said to ‘Abd al-Rahmaan ibn ‘Awf: “Give a wedding feast, even if it is with one sheep.” If the wedding feast is provided by the wife's family only, and the husband is going to offer another feast when his wife comes to join him, it is not obligatory to accept the invitation of the wife's family; rather accepting it is Sunnah.
End quote from Fataawa Noor ‘ala al-Darb.
From this we may note that it is permissible for the wedding feast to be organised jointly between the husband and wife, or the wife's family may organise it. Similarly, the wedding expenses may be shared as agreed between the two parties, and each of them may offer a wedding feast, as is customary in some countries. If there is some dispute as to who is obliged to provide the wedding feast, it is to be provided by the husband, as stated above. But other wedding expenses, such as having a party in a hotel and so on, should be done according to mutual agreement.
Post time 13-12-2023 07:57 AMFrom the mobile phone|Show all posts
Tinot7 replied at 13-12-2023 06:57 AM
Mana hang dpt si ayah pompan yg kena tanggung kenduri kawen?
Sahih al-Bukhari 5155
Sejak kecik2 aku duk paham.. kalo majlis kawen tu "kenduri" buat kat rumah / side keluarga pompuan... so mestilah family perempuan yang kena tanggung..
Kalo majlis sambut menantu, belah pengantin lelaki.. so lelaki / keluarga tu laa yang kena tanggung..
Yang pengantin lelaki kasi mas kawen je..
No such thing as sponsoring belanja kawen utk side perempuan.. tp tu lah.. ini kan adat melayu
1st wedding i buat konsep mcm kat atas tu..
2nd wedding 1 majlis, kitorg laki bini tontong kos sahaja tak melibatkan anybody else
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Post time 13-12-2023 08:12 AMFrom the mobile phone|Show all posts
green~tea replied at 13-12-2023 07:57 AM
Sejak kecik2 aku duk paham.. kalo majlis kawen tu "kenduri" buat kat rumah / side keluarga pompuan ...
Masa iols skolah, setad dah habaq, bersanding tu adat bkn agama.. giteww..
Kat mana2 org konpius antara adat dgn agama.. hat laki yg kena bg mkn, kalau pompan nak join tampung sekaki, bleh jahh.. tapi bknnya belah pompan yg kena tampung semua.. itu mcm adat kat india nun..
Dan minima sekor kamben jahh, bkn mkn berkali2 berhari2.. menda ni bknnya sbb pincess sindrom ka apa.. hat laki mmg sepatutnya tampung mkn pakai tmpt tinggal.. cuma pompan kena kawal napesu lerr kalau pilih laki yg mmg tak mampu..
Tapi hat poremer ataih tu habaq laki suka tekel pompan2 out of their league is betoi.. tgk la citer shallow hal.. cer deme tekel pompan sbb peribadi ka, agama ka, tanpa melihat luaran.. nescaya sumer hepi jahh.. tapi itu bkn realiti..
Post time 13-12-2023 08:21 AMFrom the mobile phone|Show all posts
Tinot7 replied at 13-12-2023 08:12 AM
Masa iols skolah, setad dah habaq, bersanding tu adat bkn agama.. giteww..
Kat mana2 org konpius ...
Bersanding tu mmg le adat.. kalo aiols pun serabut aih nak sanding2 bagai... buang masa...
Out of league? Depends jugak tinot..
Husband i pun penah kawen 2X... ex wife dia keje PTD je, arwah ayah dia technician, mak surirumah, asal duduk flat kat kelang... tp demand majelis kawen kat hotel both side... her 2nd marriage, 4 majlis besaran jugak... itu yg aiols maksud kan princess syndrome.. demand melebihi dari taraf hidup...
Aiols yang bebetul sekuffu same pekerjaan dgn laki & parents kami pun sama sekuffu (bisnes)? 1 majlis 200 pax jamuan makan sajork... sbb aiols sedar, tak perlu demand di luar batas...
Ai mmg setuju bab cari pasangan ni kena sekuffu... susah kalo berbeza taraf...
Post time 13-12-2023 08:25 AMFrom the mobile phone|Show all posts
green~tea replied at 13-12-2023 08:21 AM
Bersanding tu mmg le adat.. kalo aiols pun serabut aih nak sanding2 bagai... buang masa...
Out o ...
Tu bkn pincess sindrom.. tu kaki kikis.. baguih la somi hang dah kembali ke jln pangkal cari yg sekufu.. iols setuju bab cari sekufu ni sbb nnt borak2 senang, berunding senang.. iols hepi for u..
Tapi now pompan yg ramai rajin berusaha drp laki.. nak cari sekufu tu mmg susah la lagu ni..
Post time 13-12-2023 08:37 AMFrom the mobile phone|Show all posts
Tinot7 replied at 13-12-2023 08:25 AM
Tu bkn pincess sindrom.. tu kaki kikis.. baguih la somi hang dah kembali ke jln pangkal cari yg se ...
Oh lain eh princess syndrome ngn kaki kikis?
i tot sama.. kes nya aiols duk baca yang izzudin yusof FB tu... dia byk jugak melondeh pasal pompuan2 yang ada ciri2 ni...
Definition aiols...
Princess syndrome = narcissist = kaki kikis = materialistik
Tengs.. mmg bila sekuffu ni byk memudahkan urusan.. mudah komunikasi.. takde nak sentap terasa hati sbb berbeza priority...
Post time 13-12-2023 07:10 PMFrom the mobile phone|Show all posts
ardent91 replied at 13-12-2023 07:07 PM
asal u kata "keje PTD jer" ? bukan PTD tu sesuatu yg berpangkat agak tinggi ker dalam gomen?
Takde lah.. PTD nowadays lepas batch 2008 mmg lambat naik even lagi teruk dari kenaikan cikgu... sbb terlalu banyak kemasukan sampai ribu2.. sedangkan perjawatan takde...
This is fact... PTD hanya gemilang zaman najib.. ada fast track... skang semua program fast track PTD dah abolished semenjak tun M naik jadi PM in 2018...
My husband pun ex PTD.. dah selamat resigned early this year masuk GLC, heols amek option awal pencen, lepas 40 tahun & 16++ tahun berkhidmat...
Post time 13-12-2023 07:11 PMFrom the mobile phone|Show all posts
kakikuDibibirmu replied at 13-12-2023 04:59 PM
Lelaki selalu bercerai dengan isteri, tetapi perempuan susah betul nak bercerai dengan dildo. Bincan ...
Gay plak susah nak bercerai dari jolok jubor bontot..
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