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Family tak restu. Hubungan berbeza umur

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 Author| Post time 26-10-2020 03:08 PM | Show all posts
Jitu replied at 25-10-2020 04:07 PM
tt buatlah poll

move on cari lain...susah kahwin xda restu ni

buat poll? hehe. akan dipikirkan..boleh bagi byk suggestion kan..
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 Author| Post time 26-10-2020 03:09 PM | Show all posts
pearl.silver replied at 25-10-2020 06:38 PM
Doa lah supaya dilembutkn hati mak dia
Well ank menakan i (laki) pun kawen pomPuan tua 10thn dr dia ...

ye insyallah tu yg sy tgh buat skrg. doa byk2 utk lembutkan hati mak dia
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 Author| Post time 26-10-2020 03:11 PM | Show all posts
kaoru44 replied at 25-10-2020 10:31 PM
I rasa mcm xpyh la tt..
Mmg la kte tak tahu masa depan tu mcmana..
Ada someone sy kenal mcm tu jgk ...

kalo ikutkan dia byk guide sy actually. dia lagi tegas dan byk ajar sy mcm2, dan sy seorg yg dgr kata. ikut ckp dia.
tapi dari sudut family dia mungkin nampak sy yg control dan dominant dgn dia sbb sy yg tentukan hala tuju hidup dia spt kerja, masa depan,personal, etc.
tapi itu pun sbb dia yg mintak sy yg manage dia.
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 Author| Post time 26-10-2020 03:12 PM | Show all posts
Lolalala replied at 25-10-2020 11:17 PM
sorry kalau saya cakap ni mengguris hati,
ex aunty saya lepas cerai my uncle, dia kawin pucuk muda ...

owh boleh check up kesuburan ye? hahaha
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 Author| Post time 26-10-2020 03:14 PM | Show all posts
AyaqMeloSuam replied at 25-10-2020 11:37 PM
Tt, bincang baik2 berdua.. bf tt tu masih muda bru nk mula khidupan. Takut dkemudian hari jd masalah ...

skrg sy cuba utk teruskan selagi mampu. tapi sy kurangkan jumpa dgn family dia esp mak dia. maybe sbb sblom ni sy mmg kerap keluar berdua dgn mak dia dan spend time dgn mak dia
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 Author| Post time 26-10-2020 03:14 PM | Show all posts
krustykrab replied at 25-10-2020 11:45 PM
X payahla tt, nnt jadi mcm kak rima...tu laki omputih pun buat hal jgk bila umo dah masuk 40 bini 50 ...

kak rima ni sape lak? huhu
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 Author| Post time 26-10-2020 03:16 PM | Show all posts
makadek replied at 26-10-2020 12:27 AM
Klau ku bakal jd makmertua..
Takat ank aku nk kwin dgn pmpuan beza 10taon ok je yg penting pmpuan t ...

bestnya kalo ko jadi mertua aku. tiberr hahaha. aku pun taktau sbb utama mak dia reject, maybe sbb age gap dan nampak aku control idup anak dia. ikutkan hidup yg stabil, mmg berkali ganda aku stabil drpd anak dia, infact dlm siblings dia, kalau aku masuk dlm family dia, aku paling stabil. faham tak situasi di situ?
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 Author| Post time 26-10-2020 03:19 PM | Show all posts
orkidorkido replied at 26-10-2020 02:50 AM
Andaikata u are 43, bf 30 then i wud say u can give it a try. Tapi kalau dia baru 23, Macam u caka ...

ye ramai ckp camni. he has long way to go. i pulak dah stabil. tapi i tak pandang semua tu pun. hahaha ye lah masa bercinta semua manis, ye dokk
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 Author| Post time 26-10-2020 03:29 PM | Show all posts
Edited by sh00 at 26-10-2020 07:59 AM
Acikgomen replied at 26-10-2020 06:59 AM
Dik, memandangkan awak umo dah 36, manakala anak hekan tuh 23, penah tak awak terpikir alasan2 ken ...

sebenarnya sy pun tak tau alasan utama mak dia reject sy selain faktor umur.
situasi sy, sebelom ni sy selalu spend time dgn mak dia, keluar berdua, borak2 dekat phone seminggu sekali mesti call, bercuti sama2,bila dtg rumah mak dia akan masak utk saya, mak dia baik tak berkira pun psl duit apa2 dgn saya..
lepas tu, sy dah financially stable, kerja tetap sbg penjawat awam,
kelebihan saya dan mungkin juga kekurangan saya, saya sejenis yg sgt lurus org nya, sy mudah percaya org, mudah kesian, suka bantu org dan tak berkira soal duit langsung. yes sy seorg yg sgt lurus hehe. sume je org tau hahaha
dushhh tiba2 mak dia berubah idk why. sy taknak bersangka buruk sbb sy bukan sejenis begitu.

sebab tu sy rasa buntu sgt skrg, apa salah saya..sy dah cuba yg terbaik utk beri yg terbaik
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 Author| Post time 26-10-2020 03:30 PM | Show all posts
matjerk replied at 26-10-2020 03:17 AM
Tt kaya x? Klu tt kaya ... shower bakal mertua tt dgn hadiah2 berupa gelang emas, rantai emas, baju, ...

boleh baca kat post #93 hehe..sy dah explain situasi sebenar yg sy alami secara tiba2 ni
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 Author| Post time 26-10-2020 03:31 PM | Show all posts
LH76 replied at 26-10-2020 04:17 AM
Adik ipar i tua beberapa thn dr i. mula2 dulu mak i x suka dia. mak ckp dah la umur tua, raut muka p ...

u boleh baca kat post #93 hehe..sy dah explain situasi sebenar yg sy alami secara tiba2 ni
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 Author| Post time 26-10-2020 03:32 PM | Show all posts
babynina30 replied at 26-10-2020 04:46 AM
Soklan i

1. Dh bape lama u kapel dgn mamat ni?

u boleh baca kat post #93 hehe..sy dah explain situasi sebenar yg sy alami secara tiba2 ni

family i okay je. dia pun baik dgn parent i, selalu jumpa ,
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 Author| Post time 26-10-2020 03:33 PM | Show all posts
Lengkong replied at 26-10-2020 05:40 AM
Setuju dengan elle..simpati pada tt. Tt pertahankanlah selagi termampu. Semoga yang baik2 untuk tt ...

terima kasih awak. sy cuba pertahankan selagi mampu. sy rasa mcm nak jauhkan diri sikit drpd family dia buat masa skrg
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Post time 26-10-2020 03:35 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Bf tt baya anak umi, umi pun mcm susah nak terima menantu yg beza umur lebih dr 10 tahun.
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 Author| Post time 26-10-2020 03:35 PM | Show all posts
chinta89 replied at 26-10-2020 04:46 AM
sis, better x teruskan. percayalah. mak mentua ni kalau dah x sukaaaaa buat la ape pun nescaya takka ...

takpe sis, biarlah dia cari menantu yg muda belia mcm anak dia, biar anak dia yg baru nk mulakan hidup tu gigih bekerja. entah2 esok lusa dia plk sindir menantu dia dh kawin ngn anak dia, x dpt bantu ekonomi anak jantan dia plk.




tiber ada betul gak apa sis ckp ni. sy skrg ni betul2 ikhlas nak bantu anak dia hala tuju hidup.




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 Author| Post time 26-10-2020 03:36 PM | Show all posts
umisha replied at 26-10-2020 07:35 AM
Bf tt baya anak umi, umi pun mcm susah nak terima menantu yg beza umur lebih dr 10 tahun.

yeke umi? hehe. tu la tu, jauh sgt beza kan
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Post time 26-10-2020 03:40 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Teringat plak aku rancangan 90 days fiance tu. Couple India dgn dubai tu aku restu jah wpon awek diorg msg2 smpai beza separuh umor. Yg aku benci couple Brazil tu wpon dua2 muda. Si pompuan Brazil tu dh la miskin, x lawa plak tu. Tp demandnya ngalahkn miss Brazil. Sori TT ter OT plak kt sini
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Post time 26-10-2020 03:43 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
sh00 replied at 26-10-2020 03:14 PM
kak rima ni sape lak? huhu

https://mforum.cari.com.my/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=1212201&mobile=2

Sis jenguk sini
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 Author| Post time 26-10-2020 03:50 PM | Show all posts
krustykrab replied at 26-10-2020 07:43 AM
https://mforum.cari.com.my/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=1212201&mobile=2

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okay tq sis
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Post time 26-10-2020 03:54 PM | Show all posts
sh00 replied at 26-10-2020 03:35 PM
takpe sis, biarlah dia cari menantu yg muda belia mcm anak dia, biar anak dia yg baru nk mulakan h ...

x pyh susah2 beria nk bantu anak org sis.. bantu emosi diri sendiri udah la. lelaki ni kalau dia x sokong kita sb nk sokong mak dia, kita takan rasa berbaloi keikhlasan kita tlg anak dia selama ni. jgn cuba2 makan hati sis, dgr lah ckp sy ni. unless dia btl2 sanggup sokong sis depan family in law...
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