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my-alja posted on 9-9-2013 12:06 PM 
what a crap advice....so sorry,
dah dapat somi bangang camtu, masih nak support dia bagai.. ...
its okie sis,its not crap for me AND MY FRIENDS,she dont pay for her husbund,at least she become rich now,laki nak cerai pun sedih ,the wife make income 17k per month,who stupid husbund will divorce her,laki mmg lah stress kalau kita always ask dia byk byk lepas tu dia tak mampu,bila dia tgk perempuan lain byk berdikari mestilah dia start benci isteri dia and ask himself why i dont have women that can surrive in herlife alone,what about me if im died,who will feed my children,the truth nowdays budak sekolah pun pandai cari duit skrg berniaga online tak pyh mintak duit mak bapak utk beli phone ke gadget,
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nouf28 posted on 11-9-2013 01:49 PM
its okie sis,its not crap for me AND MY FRIENDS,she dont pay for her husbund,at least she become r ...
i think u dun understand the rule of being wife and husband..
tolong baca buku, think like a man and act like a lady..
u akan faham apa yg i cuba nak sampaikan...
gaji rm17k is nothing nowadays if that is ur priority in life
tapi as urself, itu ke utmost priority dlm hidup kita sebagai isteri
laki malas keje, bini cari duit sendiri...tampung famili
bini meroyan takmo beranak, laki ambik hormon...bagi tumbuh rahim?
bila aturan sunatullah tu dah lari disebabkan kejahilan kita
semua benda akan terbalik kuang...
itu belum masuk isu suami rendah self-esteem...
itu belim masuk isu mak mertua hasut somi tukar bini...
baca buku yg suggest kat atas tu, bukan cari duit semata kat dunia ni
esok2 anak u akan repeat perangai mak ayah yg jahil nie
the whole family concept akan kucar kacir...
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my-alja posted on 11-9-2013 02:09 PM
i think u dun understand the rule of being wife and husband..
tolong baca buku, think like a man ...
i baca ,my husbund is very good husbund,i have very good income even im fully housewife,but he never touch my income,he give me money every month and holiday and shopping even at the time his money leave little bit he will try for his best,because he respect his wife that work for his baby,and dia pun tak pernah lalai tanggungjawab dia dgn family,when im sick he never let me go to goverment hospital,because he know its his love and his children mother,wat u say its true,many husbund especially malay they dont care about their wife,tahu buat anak,tapi bini bersalin kat hospital gov,its so shame even the chinese he not work sent their wife to hospital private,utk keselasaan isteri,and after that they sent to slimming centre,and same my husbund too,me i never let he eat outside,make the house very clean,and wat ever he ask me i never say no,i know the money is not everything,but sometime its can change and help something in ur life,my parents always tell me even u have rich husbund its doesnt mean u can ask him always,we dont know what problem he face in his work,
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nouf28 posted on 11-9-2013 02:24 PM
i baca ,my husbund is very good husbund,i have very good income even im fully housewife,but he nev ...
Haa, i can see that u have a very good husband but why ur 1st post contradicting with this?
Tugas SUAMI sebagai suami, jangan suka-suki suruh pompuan ambil tanggungjawab tu
what u said on the 1st post, merely suruh acik tu carik duit..make a living for herself
and let the husband be whatever he wants to be...just to keep the marriage survive
where is the idea came from since u, urself have a very responsible husband...rethorik?
maaf cakap, dunia hari ni ramai betol org rethorik...nak2 motivator...
cakap lain, apa yg depa buat lain...
Being lelaki, kalo dia boleh provide to the family...itulah MARUAH mereka yang sebenar
maruah ini kalo mereka takde, self-esteem dia akan jatuh ke lutut...dia lagi lepas tanggungjawab
jangan sekali-kali letak idea JANGAN mintak material dr suami...many cases, somi cari betina lain
to spend duit lebihan dia sebab bini tak pandai mintak...
nak2 yg verangan nak kahwin dua, dgn bini pertama kedekut nak mampus
duk tunggu bini tua sket, dia pasang badan nak habiskan simpanan kat bini muda
drama ni is around us, tak ambil pengajaran jugak...tak tahulah nak kata apa
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i dont say that she need to take that tanggungjawab,i mean she need to change,kita ni perempuan jglah harap suami sgt,zaman sekarang dgn zaman dulu berbeza,perempuan zaman sekarang pandai berdikari,tak macam dulu,even taraf hidup pun berbeza dari zaman dulu,kalau setakat gaji laki 3000k pun tak cukup nak byr sewa rumah dgn kereta,50ringgit apelah sgt,petrol dah naik dah,so mungkin gaji dia tak cukup,laki kadang kadang ego tak nak beritahu masalah dgn kelemahan dia,kita ni perempuan mane tahu dia ade problem dgn kerja lepas tu mintak macam macam,mmglah angin diorang,tanggungjawab tanggungwab,yes,tapi kita kenalah berdikari jgk,perempuan kalau cinta boleh beri laki duit ini fakta yg betul yg tak boleh lari,so kalau laki tu wife asyik mintak je mesti dia stress,bila laki tu terjumpa perempuan yg reti berdikari tak nyanya wife tu,mesti husbund dia pertikaikan why my wife cannot be like her,then kalau perempuan tu suka laki dia lagi kacau |
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so tak bolehlah nak salahkan lelaki,wife pun kena jaga diri jgk,its not about the money,many aspect tau,pakaian,rumah kena kemas,makan laki kena jaga,anak tak boleh selekeh,mcm mcm,lagi satu tip,housewife kenalah jage kebersihan,especially kat miss v dgn rambut,cuba laki tu balik stress jumpa isteri rambut tak terurus tak shampoo,kat kerja selalu nampak perempuan lawa,balik rumah nampak isteri mcm makcik,bahaye beb,kalau husbund tu tegur takpe,kalau yg tak tegur ni susah |
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nouf28 posted on 6-9-2013 09:10 PM
salam sis,my friends pun ade problem mcm ni,sorry tu say,but u need to change ur lifestyle,mcm car ...
Thank u for ur concern...my husband x kaki perempuan or ada org ketiga...and yes sbg isteri mmg wajib utk berhias cantik utk suami..i bukan la jenis abaikan rumah sampai kotor bagai sepah semua..semua keje n bersih n hias rumah i buat semua sebab i tau my suami mmg berat kaki tangan nak buat semua tu...and pasal savings i dah buat senyap2 without his knowledge
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melatibiru posted on 18-9-2013 04:10 PM
Thank u for ur concern...my husband x kaki perempuan or ada org ketiga...and yes sbg isteri mmg wa ...
Maybe ur husbund have financial problem,sometime the husbund is ego,when we the wife don't help him just keep ask,he will feel stress,in anyhow,try to speak with him slowly,the women should know the. Guy have ego,and pray to the god ask give u patient and show the way,
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Ada satu lagi mama nak tambah.... Tak ada anak pun boleh jadi punca penceraian..... pasangan inginkan zuriat ... |
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sy tak kawin lg tp nak jawap gak la..slalunya masalah nie berpunca sbb masalah agama..jika ada antara suami @ isteri yg agak lemah dari segi agama maka bimbing la dia..bila agama tidak diutamakan maka masalah lain akan muncul secara tiba2..perkahwinan adalah satu rahmat bukan satu ujian..hargai la iya.. |
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Jodoh xpanjang...kadang2 itu yg terbaik.. |
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“Tiga punca utama penceraian yang banyak berlaku di Johor termasuklah masalah ekonomi, jurang komunikasi serta ketidakpuasan hati dalam perhubungan seks.
Dalam ke tiga-tiga punca di atas, Lox minat nak explore masalah yang di merahkan di atas ...  |
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Loxlaxman posted on 16-4-2014 05:10 PM
“Tiga punca utama penceraian yang banyak berlaku di Johor termasuklah masalah ekonomi, jurang komun ...
bro, hang cerita la psl ayat merah tu.
Bnda nih paling sdp nk baca.
Kehkehkeh. |
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dapperman posted on 16-4-2014 07:09 PM
bro, hang cerita la psl ayat merah tu.
Bnda nih paling sdp nk baca.
Kehkehkeh.
Hang nak aku kupaih lanjut ka bro ... |
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Banyak duit
Banyak anak
Kasih sayang melimpah ruah
Tapi pasangan jahil agama n x mau belajar
Isu besar juga |
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masalah agama dan financial problem..
bila tunjang agama tak kuat... datang pula masalah kewangan, si dia x leh pikir dengan betul dan bersikap selfish..
dan bila mengahadapi masalah, kekangan komunikasi dua hala terjadi,,, konon nak cuba settle sndiri tanpa berbincang dan membuat keputusan sendiri..
Last edited by natberry on 26-4-2014 11:15 AM
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Category: Wanita & Lelaki
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Post time 10-9-2013 12:02 PM
