P.U.L. (Pure Unconditional Love)

Agul · Post time 11-12-2007 08:14 PM

Why would you report it? If you feels that you have a need to report it, to let people know of the fact, imho you have never started from the vantage point of P.U.L.

That needs stem from the ego desire to feel approval.

P.U.L. doesn't need this, it needs nothing. It doesn't mater what people think. Or if they think you're P.U.L.ling or lusting or possessing or obsessing or anything.

The only point is how you feel. And only you knows that. Others opinion does not matter.

mbhcsf · Post time 14-12-2007 06:38 PM

when you have a baby
u look through their eyes
they smiling back.
Itu mmg unconditional love.

Agul · Post time 29-3-2008 10:47 PM

Lester on Love.

Love is a feeling ofgivingness with no thought of receiving any return for it.

Love is a giving with no strings attached.

Love is the natural, inherent state of man.

Only by loving does love come to us. The more we love, the more love comes to us.

Love is an attitude, a feeling, and requires no action.

Love is a freeing of the other one.

Love is acceptance.

Love is taking people as they are.

Love is loving the other one because the other one is the way the other one is.

Love is trust.

Love is a feelingness of peace.

Love is identification.

It is being the other one by identifying with the other one.

Love is what every being is seeking through his every act.

Love is the answer to all problems.

When there are problems, if we would love more, they would disappear. When the love is complete, the problem dissolves immediately.

Love and understanding are the same.

Agul · Post time 29-3-2008 10:51 PM

Love is communing; it is conununication.

Lending support, wanting for the other one what the other one wants, that is love.

The greatesthelp or giving one may give to another is to help the otherto get the
understanding ofTruth. In this way, one gives the other the formula for happiness.
ofthe universe.

Love is apower. It is the cohesive force of the universe.

Love is attracting, integrating, and constructive and so effects anything that it is applied to.

Parliaments cannot right theworld; butenough individuals feeling love can.

Almost all people mistake ego approval for love. Because it is not love, it is not satisfying. Consequently, one continuously needs and demands it. And this produces only frustration.

Love is not sex.

Love is not an emotion.

People need each other and thinkit is love. There's no hanging on to, orfencing in, of the other one when one loves.
Human love does not want to share its love with others, but rather wants its own personal satisfaction. Real love wants to share its love and the more it is shared, the morejoyous it is.

There is no "longing for" in love, because longing is separation; love being oneness, it does not allow separation.

True love cannot be gotten through marriage. It mustbe there before marriage.

Love cannot be applied to one and not another.

It's impossible to love one and hate another. When we love one more than another, that one is doing something for us.
That is human love. When one loves people because they are nice to him, that too, is human love. True love is unconditional.
In true love, one loves even those who oppose him.

Agul · Post time 29-3-2008 10:56 PM

We should love everyone equally.

It's impossible to get love. Only by loving can one feel love.

The more one looks for love, the more one doesn't love.

One should strive to love, never to be loved. To be loved brings temporary happiness, ego inflation.

When one loves fully, one can have no concept of not being loved.

To love our enemy is the height of love.

When love is felt for the enemy, it makes the enemy impotent; powerless to hurt us. If the enemy persists in trying to hurt us, he will only hurt himself.

One does not increase his love. One merely gets rid of one's hate.

In a a state of high love one has a feeling of harmlessness, and grants the other one the other one's beingness.

When we love fully, we feel we have everytbing.

Loving fully, one sees only love.

When one really loves, one can never be hurt.

Love has no personal angles.

Anytime one feels good, one is loving. Anytime one feels bad, one is not loving.

Love and egoism are opposites.

Love is selflessness.

Love is purity.

Love eliminates fear.

Love eliminates anxiety.

Agul · Post time 29-3-2008 10:59 PM

Love eliminates insecurity.

Love eliminates loneliness.

Love eliminates unhappiness.

Love attracts love.

Love is the means and the end.

Love is its own reward.

Love seeks its own likeness.

Love flourishes in love.

Love is contagious.

Love cannotbe intellectualized.

The sweetness of love cannot be described. It must be experienced.

Full love is constant and can never be not. When attained, one feels only it, sees only it, hears only it, and thinks only it.

Love is patient and kind. Love is notjealous or boastful. It is not arrogant or rude. Love does not insist on its own way. It is not irritable or resentful. It does not rejoice at wrong, but rejoices in the right. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.

Agul · Post time 29-3-2008 11:04 PM

From The Ultimate Truth (About Love & Happiness) A Handbook to Life.

By Lester Levenson.

The physicist who started release technique, of which the Sedona Method and release technique in Abundance Course originated.

A good book. I heartily recommend it.

pujanclay · Post time 4-4-2008 11:59 PM

salam
nak tumpang membaca :eek: :eek:

Agul · Post time 5-4-2008 02:38 AM

hello pujanclay

thamrong · Post time 5-4-2008 03:20 PM

True and unconditional love ! Well! Whatever it takes. For instance, on a special occasion, buy your partner eleven real red roses and one artificial red rose. Place the artificial rose in the center of the bouquet.
Attach a card that says:
揑 will love you until the last rose fades.

hamizao · Post time 5-4-2008 04:27 PM

Gee, Agul. How would you mark them if they were a set of questionnaires to see your love gauge? Would it be all or nothing or the more "yes" means you are closer to true love?

pujanclay · Post time 5-4-2008 08:42 PM

is love full of teory??
why must we follow others theory on love??
can we just experience love ourselves and learnt from it first hand..
i think its better that way

pujanclay · Post time 5-4-2008 08:43 PM

can we really measured love??
how??

Agul · Post time 5-4-2008 10:24 PM

Nothing we ever say about love would ever explain it.

You just feel it.

I don't know how you feel. Is it the same as me? What's your sensation. How visceral it is. Where in the body. Hot or calm, etc...

It's like you have a very powerful and fast bike with dead speedometer. Only you can evaluate the speed by how you feel.

The thing is different bike even have different speedometer rating. Some speedometer are more accurate than others.

Agul · Post time 5-4-2008 10:25 PM

that's flirting, and romances.

Agul · Post time 5-4-2008 10:46 PM

Originally posted by pujanclay at 5-4-2008 08:42 PM
is love full of teory??
why must we follow others theory on love??
can we just experience love ourselves and learnt from it first hand..
i think its better that way

yo bro, ini bukan teori la...

I爏uggest everyone start reading and meditate on the quotes. it may not necessarily be true or reasonate with you. but can you try to see the angle? Can you go to the vantage point?燭here燼re爉ore燿iscussion爄n爌revious爌ages.

It's not about believing anyone's theory blindly.

go on and test it. If the test fail... buang la... no use to follow dead theory.

This is not about being unintelligent. I am not asking anyone to embrace stupidity and accept everything without testing, evaluating and analyzing.

You said you about experiencing love yourselves and learn from it firsthand.

Thats exactly my point. You can't learn this thing from the wisest sages,爌rophet or anyone on earth. You can only experience it yourself. Firsthand. There is no other way. No other way. I repeat, no other way.

No one can learn about love. No one can even feel other peoples love. What we feel is our own feeling projected to others. Us being loving to others. And that's it.

An ounce of practise is woth more than tonnes of theorizing.

Lots of practical way to feel love.

1. try to remember your happy time. The time that your mother bakes that cokodok when you're small, first love, a baby's smile etc...
2. go to orphanages, old folks home, make them happy.
3. do something good for others
4.do something you love.
5. remember and try to activate the bodily sensation that you feel when being loving.
6.燿o爎andom燼ct爋f爇indness.
7. hug your mum, or papa...

8.爉usic.
9. zikr.
10. mantain and attitude of goodwill to everyone and anyone.
11. thamrong plastic flower technique...

12. etc... the list is endless.

You said about experiencing it yoursleves.

So everyone, lets add to this list.
It's no use to talk about love. Let's do it.

thamrong · Post time 5-4-2008 11:17 PM

Daddy's love is conditional but Mommy love is UNCONDITIONAL. Mommy says no string attached the moment I forsaken the umbilical cord that binds us both. Her love is a Carte Blanche ( sorry pal...I
don't remember the correct spelling). Why? Because I know that even if I am a convicted rapist or a serial killer on the verge of facing death sentence her love still remains.
Pardon me for my verbiage...

thamrong · Post time 5-4-2008 11:18 PM

Daddy's love is conditional but Mommy love is UNCONDITIONAL. Mommy says no string attached the moment I forsaken the umbilical cord that binds us both. Her love is a Carte Blanche ( sorry pal...I
don't remember the correct spelling). Why? Because I know that even if I am a convicted rapist or a serial killer on the verge of facing death sentence her love still remains.
Pardon me for my verbiage...