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Originally posted by hzln at 11-7-2008 07:34 PM 
aku kecik2 aku malasssss nak deal dgn soklan2 gini
furthermore since my mother already re-married, nobody in the family talk abt it anymore, cam, taboo topic gitu
tapi skali-skala la nenek ...
naper ko rebel kat pak ko jekkk........sedangkan mak ko pung x jaga ko gakk kannn....dia kawin lain, tinggalkan ko ngan mak dia aka nenek ko........ko bg tau nenek ko ala2 nyonya mansur.....sure pak ko tak dpt jumpa ko sbb nenek ko gakkk........am i rite???? fair ka tuk ko salahkan dia sbb tak jenguk ko zaman ko kecik2 duluk?? .....dan naper ko perlu nak simpan prasangka yg bebukan kat pak ko bila dia nak berbaik ngan ko dah besar2 ni ???? |
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ish..sedih pulak aku baca kisah korang ni..
at least korang lagi strong bila involve dlm kes macam ni.. |
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Originally posted by BingkaUbi at 13-7-2008 01:40 PM
naper ko rebel kat pak ko jekkk........sedangkan mak ko pung x jaga ko gakk kannn....dia kawin lain, tinggalkan ko ngan mak dia aka nenek ko........ko bg tau nenek ko ala2 nyonya mansur ...
sebelum ko tanye soklan nih .. ko patut tanye bapak die tu melayu ke banggali .. |
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hya org yg pernah duduk dlm situasi ni ajer yg tahu camner peritnya hidup...... aku terfikir gak nk citer situasi aku, tp ntah ler, mungkin sbb aku ada byk kerja tp sebenarnya terlalu sakit utk aku sendiri tulis dan kenang....
sakit apabila mengingati semula keji hina org kt kitorang walhal yg buat perangai mcm b#b* tu org lain... mcm mana kata2 org sekeliling membuatkan aku rasa rendah diri...tanpa sedar aku cuba mengubah diri aku jd org lain or senang citer aku ala2 pernah hidup dlm 2 dunia (1 dlm dunia reality dan satu lagi dlm dunia khayalan aku yg sentiasa happy), nasib baik aku tak kena penyakit personality disorder... mcm mana sakitnya nk bangun semula and develop ur own self confident...
at least now i'm ok... even better than some human being... tp parut tu ttp ada smpi hari ni |
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Boleh tak I nak share jugak.. tapi my parent tak bercerai.. cuma duduk asing dah almost 18 years. Masa mula2 jadi tu.. I baru umur 12 tahun.. kami adik beradik duduk dengan my mum.. My father kawin lain. Punyalah sabarnya my mother...
Kekadang sedih juga kalau tengok org lain keluar dengan father dia org..mental/fizikal stress... |
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Originally posted by kudajantan77 at 14-7-2008 02:20 PM 
sebelum ko tanye soklan nih .. ko patut tanye bapak die tu melayu ke banggali ..
mmmmmmmmmm.....awat plakkk?? aku blurr lerr...... |
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Originally posted by alangGIRL at 14-7-2008 02:24 PM
hya org yg pernah duduk dlm situasi ni ajer yg tahu camner peritnya hidup...... aku terfikir gak nk citer situasi aku, tp ntah ler, mungkin sbb aku ada byk kerja tp sebenarnya terlalu sakit utk a ...
sokmo kalu citer poligami, org cuma citer psl mak kena redha, mak kena pasrah.....org luper nak tanya perasaan anak yg takde pilihan lain selain dr terpaksa timer gak karenah pak yg nak kawin byk2 tuhhhh.............
sokmo biler citer psl cerai berai, org cuma nak tau perasaan anak jekkkk....org luper plak nak tanya camner plakk perasaan mak or pak yg dinafikan hak nak berterusan berhubung ngan anak sendri dek kerana dendam x abis dr sebelah pihakkkk..... |
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Originally posted by BingkaUbi at 14-7-2008 02:26 PM
mmmmmmmmmm.....awat plakkk?? aku blurr lerr......
kalo bapak die melayu .. cemane pun ko cuba nk tengok isu nih drp perspektif yg rasional .. dorang akan always blame jantan melayu yg haprak .. kalo bapak die tk dpt nk dekat ngan die sbb dihalang pun tetap salah bapak die jugak .. bapak die cuba nk mendekatkan kembali silaturrahim sebaik shj ade peluang, bapak die tetap dipandang mcm hanjeng ..
ye lah mase anak masuk asrama baru la boleh nk dtg dekat, anak plak anggap hanjeng .. nak dtg jenguk kat umah, pun kene maki dgn ex-mentua .. segan la nk gaduh dgn mentua dpn anak, nnti fikiran anak terganggu .. ko tau jer la mulut nyonya mansor cemane .. tapi walopun dipandang hanjeng, bapak die rendahkan diri tetap dtg nk pujuk jugak .. kesian beb ..
dengar citer mak ngan nenek smpai menci bapak .. langsung tk bagi can bapak die explain .. malang betul la bapak die .. |
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Originally posted by kudajantan77 at 14-7-2008 02:41 PM
kalo bapak die melayu .. cemane pun ko cuba nk tengok isu nih drp perspektif yg rasional .. dorang akan always blame jantan melayu yg haprak .. kalo bapak die tk dpt nk dekat ngan die sbb dihal ...
ciannn kann.....balik2 pak gakk yg cam hanjeng sbb nak baik2 ngan anak.....kalu pak tuhhh kaya raya cam soltan brunei , jenguk dia kat asrama naik jaguar, bwk cuti2 naik jet sendrik, agak2 dia tuduh pak dia mai tuhh sbb dia pandai???? ala2 cam tuduhan ada udang sebalik mee gituh lerrr....konon2 pak dia nak tumpang senang dia lerrr...........pd hal pak tuhh mai sbb ingat tuhh anak dia...tuh jekkkk..... |
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sib baik lerrr aku bkn melayu...........aku jawa lorrrrr.. |
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Originally posted by BingkaUbi at 14-7-2008 02:52 PM
sib baik lerrr aku bkn melayu...........aku jawa lorrrrr..
tapi dalam Mykad ko tulis Melayu kan .. |
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Originally posted by kudajantan77 at 14-7-2008 02:56 PM
tapi dalam Mykad ko tulis Melayu kan ..
manader........ |
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Originally posted by BingkaUbi at 13-7-2008 01:40 PM 
naper ko rebel kat pak ko jekkk........sedangkan mak ko pung x jaga ko gakk kannn....dia kawin lain, tinggalkan ko ngan mak dia aka nenek ko........ko bg tau nenek ko ala2 nyonya mansur ...
u're comparing my mental capacity, my logic n reasoning, as a rebellious teenager, exactly 20 years ago this month, with a very much mellowed me today ke my dear? haiyyyoohhhh....don't tell me lah u're exactly the same u, today and 20 years ago... |
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Originally posted by hzln at 14-7-2008 06:47 PM 
u're comparing my mental capacity, my logic n reasoning, as a rebellious teenager, exactly 20 years ago this month, with a very much mellowed me today ke my dear? haiyyyoohhhh....don't tell m ...
ok laaa.......it was u 20years ago.......20y? how old r u skrg?? 20y ago, aku br jekkk 12thn.....exactly end last mthh...... |
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that is why u guys, grown-up men out there need to know yr rights n responsibilities from early on, of course there'll always be strong, dominant women out there, former spouses, former in-laws...but women will always be women, if u do nothing, EXACTLY nothing, how do u expect the reception will be?
and u're blaming these women when things are beyond repair between u n yr kids. the blaming game is so very convenient eh?
there's a very clear distinction between being firm and being weak u know... |
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Originally posted by hzln at 14-7-2008 07:03 PM
that is why u guys, grown-up men out there need to know yr rights n responsibilities from early on, of course there'll always be strong, dominant women out there, former spouses, former in-laws.. ...
a man needs a woman,but a woman wants her man... itu pasallaaaaaaaa |
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