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Post time 28-10-2023 08:38 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Edited by luna.millieu at 28-10-2023 08:46 PM
NaylaArisha replied at 26-10-2023 05:25 PM
kalau bukan overthingking bukan ai ler kan

x payah ler
buat anxiety jer
cuba amek advice ni :



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Post time 28-10-2023 08:50 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
NaylaArisha replied at 26-10-2023 05:26 PM
yer lah sampai ke google translate nay cari maksud dia tau

kikiki
gigih jugak rupernyer yer



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Post time 28-10-2023 08:53 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
NaylaArisha replied at 26-10-2023 05:28 PM
Miso (みそ or 味噌) is a traditional Japanese seasoning. It is a thick paste produced by fermentin ...

miso ni cam taucu..
basic dia sama : fermented bean paste





cumanyer luna x penah rasa taucu msia so xtau la beza jauh ker x baper beza ker cemaner

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Post time 28-10-2023 09:10 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
NaylaArisha replied at 26-10-2023 05:29 PM

as long as you don't suffocate yourself




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Post time 28-10-2023 09:23 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
NaylaArisha replied at 26-10-2023 05:35 PM
tu lah pasal
kadang2 kita ni sebab dah ada self awareness
cuma malas nak bertekak dengan

betul jer..

the problem with boomers is diorang mmg lack the capability utk terima & hormat pendapat org yg muda dari diorang

luna don't mind sangkal pendapat org tua, most shut their mouth when luna ask for the source / root of their statement / opinion

that's why xder yg bunyik bila luna decide to pantang seniri walaupun banak kat msia
bb pun luna x penah kasi sapa2 jaga


both family luna & family hasben tau luna is very straight forward & firm.. saper carik pasal mmg kena


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Post time 28-10-2023 10:00 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
NaylaArisha replied at 27-10-2023 09:05 AM
erm macam mana nak cakap ye
asalkan tak ganggu kelancaran keje
cuma boss ai tak galakkan main hp ...

paham jer most work culture kat msia camtu


org2 sini walaupun kapir kuat pegang amanah.. x der pantau pun.. but kalau x jujur, that simply means u xder honor lah.. this is actually called honor system



Wikipedia : Honor System

contoh in germany,
nak naik train or metro, masa masuk station masuk platform tu open jer sapa2 boleh masuk keluar anytime 24h, xder ticket gate or org check tiket




tapi tetappp lah jarang dgr kes org x beli tiket naik ketapi free2 ajer..
kalau kantoi malu gillllaaaaa..
bakal diperhatikan as org yg xder honor..


so org kapir pun pecaya tuhan & konsep keberkatan atau kifarah in terms of karma. diorang pun pegang kepercayaan walaupun org x nampak, tapi tuhan tetap nampak apa kita buat, and sooner or later your bad habits or bad conducts will bite you back

so weols dah lama duduk study, kerja, bercampur gaul dgn mereka weols pun terdidik dgn budaya amanah mereka..

pandai makan pandai simpan ker, asal kerja jalan ker, not my business.. dosa, pahala, berkat or celaka cuma Allah lah sahaja yang layak mengadili hamba Nyaaa

so if you think about it, mmg faham la kenapa ada bangsa negara dia maju, ada bangsa x maju.. mcm beza student yg study within syllabus ajer vs student yg study extra
apa kita tanam,
kita dapat la hasilnya
makes sense jer kan ?

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Post time 28-10-2023 10:33 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
NaylaArisha replied at 27-10-2023 09:19 AM

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Post time 28-10-2023 10:36 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
NaylaArisha replied at 27-10-2023 09:20 AM
ai dah tua
dah 3 kali potong
mmg lah cepat lupa

ayooo...
banding la size otak dia dgn chuols..
baru 8 tahun idup, byk sel belum develope, beribu synaps x exist pun lagi



plus, ada org lagi byk kali potong tapi masih have very good memory jer ?  


brain kena train.. if not synaps yg dah elok2 establish akan mereput ke laut..
haishhhh rugiii rugiii


Harvard Medical School : 7 ways to keep your memory sharp at any age

very the inspiration to me yer bila tgk atok2 nenek2 yg dah 80s, 90s masih sihat badan, cakap tersusun, memory terang benderang

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Post time 28-10-2023 10:43 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
NaylaArisha replied at 27-10-2023 09:26 AM
yer yang sebelum2 ni
mmg nay tak baca bebetul
asal reply jer

ok tenkyuuu
very much appreciateddd


just so thay we're clear, it is not my intention to put pressure on chuols taw..

nay nak go fast luna ok jer,
one word reply is good

lotsa words tp hollow & meaningless yg tu yg buat rengsek

let's be authentic
tu jer..


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Post time 28-10-2023 10:48 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
NaylaArisha replied at 27-10-2023 09:28 AM
okay jujur kalau dari pandangan luna
sejak borak dengan nay
which one yang luna rasa menunjukkan ...

lololololol
adoiii..
tiber la jadi kaunselor

hahaha..
adoi la

ok xper.. if it's for your betterment aiols is happy to share apa yg aiols tau.. but disclaimer aiols x bertauliah yerrr.. anggap takat borak2 starbucks jer ok, mamak xmo xder ekon

ok based on general info yg ada kat alam tenet ni laaa.. ada byk jer kalau nay interested kat yt, tt sumer tu..



so nay eh..
betul la nay mix of both..
basically people pleaser, susah nak say no, x berapa pandai nak bertegas, nay cuba tapi nay senang fold..
betul x ?

org jd people pleaser sebab nak validation from other people la, so that's why la nay ada tendency to seek validation from others

self centered tu semua org pun ada sedikit sebanyak kan, cuma dominant ker x .. sifat tu menonjol ker tak, atau pun sifat tu ada tapi suppressed, or not acted upon..

nay punyer self centeredness tu normal jer kot.. higher la mungkin internally (which is normal also), tapi luna rasa nay cuma express that trait dgn org2 yg nay berani or selesa jer,
betul x ?

anyway, byk conditions ni dtg dari upbringing kita, so now semuanya di hujung jari, boleh jer find out kenapa kita pangai camni, kita ok ker x ok ker, ada trauma ker, perlu healing ker, cemaner caranyer etc etc..

it's all on the internet

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Post time 28-10-2023 10:53 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
NaylaArisha replied at 27-10-2023 09:30 AM
nasib baik lah lepas dia dah masuk tu
dia cakap dia minat nak buat
kalau tak sesia jer


oh yer ?



alahhh
invest kat anakkk
x sia2 lahhh

kalau dia x minat pun skang,
atleast dia dah ada exposure, mana tau mungkin akan uturn di masa depan ?
we'll never know kan

ala.. mcm pokok..
ada yg tabur benih esok tumbuh
ada yg sampai lupa tiberrr eh la tumbuh rupanyer !

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Post time 28-10-2023 10:58 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
NaylaArisha replied at 27-10-2023 09:32 AM
yes kira exercise lah jugak kanlagipon hari2 pagi petang
turun naik tangga
kat sekolah pun sama

oh ok faham
then that's something la !


so kat sini ada discussion pasal exercise, sebab japanese kan hari2 guna kaki ke mana2.. paling advance pun naik basikal la but basically mmg x drive.. kalau jauh naik la train, x semestinya dpt duduk kan so mostly berdiri la sampai destination

so persoalan nyer : dah byk kot exercise kaki hari2, perlu exercise lagi ker ?



panel of experts kata pergerakan yg buat hari2 tu x masuk dlm exercise sebab badan dah lali so still perlu exercise yg out of daily activities, atleast on weekends pun jadi..
gitu lah katanya merekaaa..

just sharing ya !


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Post time 28-10-2023 11:00 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
NaylaArisha replied at 27-10-2023 09:33 AM
tapi ni dah beberapa hari ni
batuk makin teruk tak berkurang pun
sebab cuaca lah jugak ni

betul la change of weather selalu buat immunity kita lemah sket, sebab badan kerja lebih nak ejas to the new temperature kan

luna batuk seminggu kot minggu lepas, so luna minum air teh panas + madu + halia ( + lemon membantu juger tp xder )

still some illnesses perlu bantuan dokter..
so kalau lama berlarutan better gi jumpa

ni batuk yg sama x baik2 dah 2 minggu ker batuk lain ?

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Post time 28-10-2023 11:04 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Edited by luna.millieu at 28-10-2023 11:05 PM
NaylaArisha replied at 27-10-2023 09:34 AM
kalau dah rezeki tak ke mana


iyerrr
Allah bantu kita mcm2 cara

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Post time 28-10-2023 11:08 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
NaylaArisha replied at 27-10-2023 09:47 AM
ahh i thought u talking about myself
is just about KJ

topic lama sgt sampai rentetan conversation pun dah lupa

so paham apa luna ckp kan ?
suka x suka x per
jgn ckp benda x betul pasal org tu or saper2

xkesah la org tu sorang jer ker what not..
a duck is still a duck,
x kesah la warna dia apa,
besar mana ker or whatever..



kan patutnyer kita x nak dosa
bukan nyer dosa sikit x per


bukan camtu ker ?

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Post time 28-10-2023 11:13 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
NaylaArisha replied at 27-10-2023 09:50 AM
sebab tu sarapan tak boleh tinggal
lunch n makan malam
nak diet pon kena ikut apa yang

admitted breakfast meal penting to kick start the day


tapi kelemahan umah ni la, weekdays mostly mmg miss, wiken jer mampu nak bekfes

yer betul
apa pun kena ilmu
diet included


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Post time 28-10-2023 11:24 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
NaylaArisha replied at 27-10-2023 11:12 AM
okay lah tu

sekarang kat sana

ntah ekkk
duduk kat msia pun luna x tgk drama msia

mmg sejenis xbaper layan drama,
drama jepun pun x tgk drama omputeh yg last skali pun netflix's wednesday last year



luna x tgk drama, tgk berita so stakat awani tu tgk kat youtube jer ok kot.. kalau cnn luna stream from streaming website sebab kat youtube xder

other than berita luna layan japanese comedy talk show or variety shows

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Post time 28-10-2023 11:25 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
NaylaArisha replied at 27-10-2023 11:16 AM
hopefuly ... ai try my best to bring them a happy life


yg pasti Allah suka hamba Nya put effort,
so take solace in that ya !

Allah x akan sia2 kan usaha hamba Nyaaa


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Post time 28-10-2023 11:33 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
NaylaArisha replied at 27-10-2023 11:20 AM
ai rasa apa u cakap pasal ada certain mom yang cepat sentap dengan anak sendiri
memang ada di sek ...

faham faham


that is called silent treatment or stonewalling..





luna pun weaponize jugak tektik tu dulu, yer la that is the only tool kita tau nak guna sebab tektik tu yg kita belajar dari parents kita kan but luna realize la it is not a good method for conflict resolution, more to method of manipulation : the other party esp children, have no choice but mengalah to get with our good side

ingat x betapa hopeless & helpless nyer kita rasa masa kecik2 kalau org stonewall kita ? sekejap ke lama ke it doesn't matter.. masa kena silent treatment tu mmg sgt2 stressful kan.. bila kena byk2 kali lama2 kita pun rela suppress jer our real selves utk elak kena silent treatment.. hasilnya parents pun x kenal siapa anak dia sebenarnyer.. also, kita (anak) blaja silent treatment is a good weapon to use sebab kita tgk betapa berkesan nyer cara adult manipulate kitaaa..
ulang2 ler cycle tu sampai bila2..

skang luna abandone dah tektik tu
susah nak break out from old habits, tapi dgn practise & self awareness, insyaAllahhh..
bolehhhh.. !!!


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Post time 28-10-2023 11:34 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
NaylaArisha replied at 27-10-2023 11:20 AM
CARI ni mmg bengong
nama sendiri pulak yang tertag
nama yang lain tak biru

a ah ek..
tu la luna pasan kadang ada yg jadi link biru, ada yg x

luna ingat sebab setting org yg di tag tu

bukan ker ?
sukati jer ker ?
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