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Patutke aku siasat hingga ke lubang cacing?
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For me plak...Husben tuan umah ni ...NOT WORTH TO FIGHT FOR!!!! |
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Originally posted by tehlaut at 16-3-2009 16:32 
klu ikut apa yg ko taip tadi.... pada aku la... plg utama ko kena belajar lepaskan dendam ko tuh dulu... baru la ko senang nk amik tindakan... either nk cerai ke, nk stay ke....
trust me, b ...
betoll...aku dulu wpon benci giler khinzir ngan ape yg dia dah buat pd aku, tp aku pujuk ati aku yg aku
bencikan tu sikap dia, bukan orgnyer. then pelan2 set dlm kepala yg dia tu pinjaman semata. ertinye kalau
bkn pompuan dlm tepon tu amik dia, mgkin satu hr nti org lain plak. so aku lepaskan dia kalau dia rase dia
lebih bahgia ngan cara dia tu. dia pon manusia biase.berhak tentukan ape yg dia mahu. |
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setuju dgn sha..kak zai pun dah pernah melalui mcm2...tak guna berdendam atau balas2 ni...memberi kemaafan satu kelegaan.
but then it's easier to forgive than to forget |
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Originally posted by MrsJohn at 16-3-2009 15:35 
Do you even know how much it hurt,
That you gave up on me to be with her?
Revenge is sweeter than you ever were
I'm so mad at you right now
I can't even find the words
And you're on th ...
I LIKE THIS ONE!! hahaha, if its me... to my beloved hubby: I WANNA SEE YOU BURN, ROT IN HELL AND REGRET TILL YOU GO CRAZY. LOSERS!!!!
I HATE PEOPLE WHO CHEAT. :@ :@ :@
sekian. timer kasih. |
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aku pung penat baca citer dlm thread ni........pape lerr pompuan, janji bahagia.... |
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...alaaaaa....tak payah siasat2 lah hingga ke lubang cacing...buang karen jer...kalau aku...time dia tengah tidur...aku tekapkan bantal kat muka dia kuat2 biar dia lemas...bila dah dapat duit peninggalan dia...aku carik laki lain... |
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Originally posted by watie_na at 16-3-2009 13:23 
Aku tak nak bercerai ada sebab. Takkan aku nak let go je dia lepas dah 9 thn aku tanggung hidup dia. Kalau nak cerai pun aku nak make sure dia bayar ganti rugi selama ni. Aku kerja macam nak rak ...
...ginilah ek...pada aku...u are hanging on to him for all the wrong reasons...u are hanging on not becos u love him so much...but merely becos u feel that u have invested too much of your time and money on him...and...selagi dia tak bayar balik duit2 yang ko dah kluarkan selama nie...u are never going to let him go...ko sanggup menanggung derita batin dan mental asalkan ko dapat balik duit ko...ko sanggup dimaki hamun...diperlakukan sewenang2nya dan...most outrageously unbelievable is that u are willing to continue support him and his lifestyle asalkan ko dapat balik semua duit perbelanjaan yang telah ko kluar kan selama ini...
...instead of looking for peace of mind in your marriage...u are looking for ways to get back what u have invested in your marriage nie...sepatutnya segala apa yang kita lakukan atau pengorbanan yang kita buat tuk keluarga kita semestinya datang daripada hati yang ikhlas...dan aku yakin...suatu masa dulu ko memang ikhlas melakukan ini semua...but...oleh kerana suami ko keep on treating u with disrespect and in a manner that he should not have...keikhlasan itu hilang...ditukargantikan ngan rasa tidak puashati dan the need to retrieve back what u have lost...
...cuma...apa yang ko tak sedari is that u are putting yourself in a much more painful situation...ko tau dia tidak bertanggung jawab...ko tau dia tak kisahkan anak dia that much...ko tau dia tak kisahkan ko also...ko tau dia treated ko badly...maki hamun...selalu berprasangka buruk terhadap ko...dan ko tau jugak dia dah berlaku curang...tidak setia kat ko dan your marriage...dan ko tau jugak yang dia takkan kasi duit kwsp dia kat ko...so??...apa yang ko tunggu lagik??...buat apa ko nak continue tanggung dia lagik??...
...u keep on saying that u can be very2 evil kalau ko betul2 marah...im very2 frightened bila membaca apa yang ko tuliskan ini...cos it seems that u are capable of doing almost anything bila ko sedang marah...nasihat aku...banyak2 istigfar...kalau ko rasa2 hidup ko tidak happy ngan dia...then...leave him...there are ways ko bley dapatkan balik what u have invested in your marriage...ive got a fren yang just gone thru a divorce...sepanjang perkawinan dia...dialah yang tanggung segala2nya...suami dia hanya memberi dia nafkah sebulan 100 dollar saja...and with that 100 dollars dia expect my fren to tanggung beres duit anak2 dia...they have got 2 children...bila bercerai...segala apa barang yang dibeli oleh my fren dia dapat simpan...dan...hakim jugak memerintahkan the husband to pay back whatever nafkah yang dia telah abaikan selama mereka berkawin...in all...duit yang her ex kena bayar kat dia came to nearly 90 000 dollars...so...jangan ambil tindakan yang terburu2 dan tatkala ko sedang marah...it will only lead to disaster saja...
...again...nasihat aku...tak payahlah ko nak siasat hingga ke lubang cacing...cos in the end...u are the one yang will get hurt further...cukuplah ko anianya diri ko staying with an irresponsible man who not only unfaithful to u...but also has been verbally abusive to u...cukup2lah dear...pikirkan masa depan ko dan anak ko...letakkan ketenangan hati dan minda ko ditempat paling atas...and not the money that u have lost... |
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Reply #115 watie_na's post
kalau nak ikutkan sakit hati,marah & dendam sampai bila pun tak habis...
lebih baik awak make peace with it, dan cari kebahagiaan awak sendiri, happiness is not about holding grudges..kebahagiaan bukan kerana seronok melihat org yg kita tak suka sengsara..happiness is within yourself |
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Aku tak tau kenapa but this past few days dia baik sgt. mcm tau2 je aku tgh marah. menyampah plak nak layan dia. (tapi tak baik kan) aku nak rest dulu kot..... |
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Originally posted by blackmore at 17-3-2009 02:45
...alaaaaa....tak payah siasat2 lah hingga ke lubang cacing...buang karen jer...kalau aku...time dia tengah tidur...aku tekapkan bantal kat muka dia kuat2 biar dia lemas...bila dah dapat duit pen ...
tuhh dah nyata mati kena bunuh..........silap2 tak merasa duit kwsp laki tuhhh....bubuh jekk racun dlm air minum somi....skit demi skit......org jawa kata alon2.............................tetiba jekkk laki ..................cam satu siri CSI tuhhhh, dia buh syampoo ader contain specific chemical tuhhhh.....wakakakakka............... |
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Reply #135 BingkaUbi's post
eh kematian senyap2 cenggitu kena postmortem jugak ke... |
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Balas #135 BingkaUbi\ catat
cam best je idea ko ni.. |
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Reply #115 watie_na's post
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sujud kpd NYA kusyuk skusyuknye....klu kita muhasabahkan balik diri kita tu dgn ikhlas insyaAllah akn ade ptunjuk dari NYA..... |
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Post time 16-3-2009 04:34 PM
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