Macam mana kehidupan selepas bercerai(wanita)

manakautau

Originally posted by SleepyFish at 19-3-2008 02:56 PM


sah la u tak reti...

So syg, mengamuk sudah, sedih sudah, tenang semula pun sudah sekarang ni.....so nak share hang nyer story tak tentang kenapa anak hang berkelakuan gitu terhadap ayahnya......?????

Kongsilah jadik kita leh paham......

SleepyFish

isk apasal jadik camni

[ Last edited by  SleepyFish at 19-3-2008 03:23 PM ]

BingkaUbi

Originally posted by SleepyFish at 19-3-2008 03:11 PM


aku tanya dia semalam...dia cakap dia cakap simple jek..dia sayang father dia tapi dia nak stay ngan mama dia. I tanya kenapa sebab dia nak mama.

aku dah cuba tak pisahkan anak aku ngan e ...

aku rasa pak dia tak reti layan dia........meh blaja ngan aku camner nak layan budak.........

anak aku sekian lama tak jumpa aku, 1st soklan dia tanya aku, naper daddy pindah tpt keje jauh??? dr soklan dia aku tau, mak dia x penah suh dorang bencikan aku tp bg tau aku keje jauh dr tpt dorang........

SleepyFish

bapak dia pandai layan dia ...tapi dia suka gak tinggal ngan aku. anak perempuan kot.

entah la bing kadang2 life ni banyak yg aku tak faham...bila dah cuba sedaya upaya tapi nothing else can be done then I just surrender.

manakautau

Originally posted by SleepyFish at 19-3-2008 03:11 PM

aku tanya dia semalam...dia cakap dia cakap simple jek..dia sayang father dia tapi dia nak stay ngan mama dia. I tanya kenapa sebab dia nak mama.

aku dah cuba tak pisahkan anak aku ngan ex tapi aku dah tak terdaya. so bulan april aku pulang ke pangkuan family. aku cakap kat ex anytime dia nak jumpa anak dia arrange aku akan hantar.

tu saja...

kadang2 kalau anak aku terbangun dia cakap I love u mama, remember that ya. dia tak nak dipisahkan ngan aku.

jadik bila ko cakap mungkin ada anasir bla bla bla aku :@sebab ko tak tau apa anak aku go thru...u can only imagine.

Manak will ignore your last sentence tu cause you cannot put words into my mouth and  assumed that my generral statement tempohari was indeed an assumptions as you would like to believe.........this is no issue.

Now back to your situation.........In your own words.....why perkara atau situasi emosi yg sebegini boleh berlaku dalam jiwa anak2????? Have you really give a real tot to this syg?????? Apakah yg memungkinkan mereka ini berperasaan sedemikian.......

You are merely telling me wat happen to your kid...but wat I wish to know...is from your perspektif ......tentang aper yg memungkinkan pergolakan emosi ini berlaku didalam diri your kid?????

Come on syg lets engage secara ilmiah, and where I think I can give sound advice, i will do just that....but you have to be able to be upfront and truthful abt the things dat you are describing....pls.......be rest assured...I mean no harm......

[ Last edited by  manakautau at 19-3-2008 03:27 PM ]

SleepyFish

forget it la manak. I just don't feel safe in yr space and don't want to share anything with you.

blackmore says that people in FD have long memories and one day what we say may be used against us. I feel she/he is right and I value what she wrote.

so I will pass your invitation to discuss.

thanks anyway.

SleepyFish

nasihataku...kalau nak lama lepak kat fd...kenalah learn how to relax...loosenup a bit...takmo reveal so much about yourself...cos orang2 kat siniakan ingat ko sampai bila2...and they got no qualms to use it againstu....make fun of u and even degrade u...dont trust anyone here...niejam time korang baik semuanya ok...time korang dah tak berbaik2 antarasatu sama lain...all your secrets semua kluar...like what we havewitnessed recently...sad isnt it??...

I will paste blackmore's wise words

[ Last edited by  SleepyFish at 19-3-2008 03:40 PM ]

manakautau

Originally posted by SleepyFish at 19-3-2008 03:30 PM
forget it la manak. I just don't feel safe in yr space and don't want to share anything with question of wat is safe and wat is not.......you.

blackmore says that people in FD have long memories and one day what we say may be used agains ...

No worries.....then keep your tears to yourself forever and ever....

and to think tak ader org sebelum ini yg pernah bertanyakan hang soklan seumpama ini di sini,??? shows wat kind of mentaliti i have right sayang??????

Yg  lazimnya biasa kita dengar disini...."kesian hang...sabarlah, buat lah solat hajat bla bla bla bla.".......DUHHHHHHHHHHHH.......

manakautau

Originally posted by SleepyFish at 19-3-2008 03:37 PM


I will paste blackmore's wise words

Don't bother...both she and me attended the same "University Of Life" sayang............

SleepyFish

good for u then...

ajinomotonosuga

lam FD ni leh tahan gak few ladies yang single mother..ciannnnnn depa

setidak nya leh baca pengalaman depa..kalo ada apa dapat tolong walo moral sapot..molek gak

tapi malangnya jantan kurap sengal plak yang suke nyibuk dan cite lelebih pasal kawin padahal kawin pun idok lai

saya pun heran..kalo saya dulu bukan main ramai dok tegur duk sinis duk perli suh kawin dulu laaa baru cite lelebih laa..walhal saya bawak seme isu untuk bincangkan jek

tapi sekarang ni mana depa2 yang komen tegur saya tu seme? takdak tloq kaa? kut memang jenis tadak akal agaknya yer?

ajinomotonosuga

Originally posted by SleepyFish at 19-3-2008 03:37 PM


I will paste blackmore's wise words

i have read those words and to me tak wise mana pun..blekmore really biased in those writing

kekadang lam idup ni perlu berkias but kekadang tu kene direct to the point gak..tokleh dah nak kias2 or being wise..life is too fast nowadays.cant wait any morrr

tehlaut

woit... dah dah la tuh...... share the story not reveal the history....

aku tgh duk baca pun leh mereng kejap.....

nih dh nk masuk tea time... gi bancuh teh boh tuh sat.....

zanorba

Relax bang aji...

bakawali_04

Originally posted by BingkaUbi at 19-3-2008 03:16 PM




aku rasa pak dia tak reti layan dia........meh blaja ngan aku camner nak layan budak.........

anak aku sekian lama tak jumpa aku, 1st soklan dia tanya aku, naper daddy pindah tpt ...

same with me..
bila my 1st daughter tanya pasal ayah dia..
kenapa ayah dia x balik..
saya ckp ayah keje jauh..
what do to.. budak baru 4 thn..

MelahJanda

haku maleh masuk fd sebab ni laa
suka sangat gadow bodo bodo

namakurahsia

huhhhh!!! buhsan la. dah ada yg balik meroyan...

cantthinkofany

Originally posted by MelahJanda at 19-3-2008 04:02 PM
haku maleh masuk fd sebab ni laa
suka sangat gadow bodo bodo

gua lak seriau masuk fd coz nengok avatar lu.....

namakurahsia

Originally posted by cantthinkofany at 19-3-2008 04:27 PM


gua lak seriau masuk fd coz nengok avatar lu.....

melah kata itu dia punya...ori..tapi aku rasa plastik jer..

ajinomotonosuga

Originally posted by MelahJanda at 19-3-2008 04:02 PM
haku maleh masuk fd sebab ni laa
suka sangat gadow bodo bodo

ek ele cik kak ni..ko tuu..bercerai pasai pa? tak ke gado bodo bodo tu gak bikin ko idup tunggal laa ni..haa apa barang ?