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Pregnant at T H E W R O N G T I M E....? If it happen to you...
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I nak tanya pendapat kawan2...if u are pregnant at the wrong time ..what will you do..?
Cthnya : Kakak2 office i...bila i tanya kenapa dia tak nak mereka akan jawab (anak2 kecik lagi, mungkin financial x stable lagi, suami tak nak lagi, dia tak mentaly & phisically prepared lagi for next one), tak payah cakap pasal family planning cos dah termengandung kot...hehehehe
Maybe we can share something..... |
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Originally posted by Mmy79 at 4-9-2006 03:53 PM
I nak tanya pendapat kawan2...if u are pregnant at the wrong time ..what will you do..?
Cthnya : Kakak2 office i...bila i tanya kenapa dia tak nak mereka akan jawab (anak2 kecik lagi, mungkin f ...
pasal pregnant at the wrong itme ni.. yg patut kena lepuk is mak bapa lah..
pesal tak plan? macammana perasan kita kalau kita tau yg kita ni termasuk dlm kes kes pregnant at wrong time? how do you feel?
i think kalau dah pregnant tu, alhamdulillah n itu adalah rezeki..
kalau kita plan n termengandung, anggaplah ini ujian dan rezeki jugak..
bukan apa, baby tu dari dlm perut lagi dah dengar suara mak bapak, doa-doa.. ada pulak masuk
cite unwanted.. stress pulak baby tu.. kesian dia..
anak is anugerah.. |
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btul, i agree wit azimiey... if dh tau x nk preggy tu, pandai2 la kan... i dh jumpe 2-3 cases yg kira unwanted prgnncy la & bile dh x mau tu, the ending pun sedih la... yg 1st tu, ank overdue smpai lemas lam perut... sempat kuar but then the bb was sooo critical & at the end meninggal... yg sorang lagi plak ank die jd premature, tu pun ms tau preggy dok nangis2 x mau sbb anak 1st tu kecik lagi... sian 2nd bb die, premature & kecikkkk sgt... nsib baik survive...
so, i suppose if btul2 x mau, buat la ape yg patut... if dpt jugak, redha je la... rezeki tu... |
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my second pregnancy was an unplanned pregnancy. i was on pills... tapi pregnant gak...
but the pregnancy didnt last long. that much i could tell |
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My second son pun unwanted gak dulu. Ingat lagik, my hubby terus muncung sedepa bila I was confirmed +ve.. But kejap jer, bila perut makin besar, we as parent tetap teruja utk dpt baby baru.. And bila Muhammad Hariz Firhan lahir, kami tetap bersyukur.. Alhamdulillah walaupun hidup tak semewah mana tapi rezeki belum pernah putus, anak cukup makan pakai... Anak kan rezeki, so bila dia lahir, dia bawa rezeki sekali utk Mummy & Papanya. |
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macamana yg dikatakan wrong time dlm hubungan yg halal?
lain la kalau hubungan tak halal...itu dah sememangnya WRONG TIME...
kalau tak mau anak rapat2, gunakanlah protection...bukannya bila guna protection tak boleh nak buat hubungan kelamin...kesian janin yg tak berdosa...seolah2 kita menolak rezeki yg Allah Taala dah sediakan utk kita.
aku ada gak pengalaman beranak rapat ni...
was it wrong timing? hubby tak suka?
no... never....sebab aku percaya setiap anak ada rezeki masing2...
coz i've seen it for myself... alhamdulillah, dgn setiap kelahiran, rezeki kami sekeluarga juga bertambah... |
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my second pregnancy was unexpected. waktu yg sulung baru 7 bulan, suddenly tahu pregnant balik. tapi saya tak kisah kerana saya percaya anak itu rezeki. setiap yang Allah berikan itu rezeki. rakan sepejabat bertahun-tahun kahwin, tak ada anak, kita ni murah je Allah nak bagi rezeki. |
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Originally posted by mardhiah12 at 5-9-2006 08:13 AM
my second pregnancy was unexpected. waktu yg sulung baru 7 bulan, suddenly tahu pregnant balik. tapi saya tak kisah kerana saya percaya anak itu rezeki. setiap yang Allah berikan itu rezeki. rakan ...
:setuju::setuju::setuju: |
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Sidih biler dengar dari mulut mak apak mengatakan baby ni wrong timing, org lain punya la susah nak dapat.
Like me I was wrong timing child, age different me and my bro is 10 years so my mum told me I was wrong timing and unplanned child I know she's jooking but
imagine how I feel :geram:
Biarlah dekat ngan first baby pun takpe den bersyukur... anugerah tuu :love: |
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Originally posted by GubRa_80 at 5-9-2006 08:23 AM
:setuju::setuju::setuju:
:setuju:
kes aku cam ko laa..yg 1st one baru 8 bulan..tup2 dpt adik lg..setiap anak ade rezki masing..insyallah ujung lan 11 ni kuarlah yg 2nd one plak..:love: |
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ekceli my hubby pun kira anak wrong timing... tapi kan orang kampung, so my FIL terima ajerla... hubby's sister masa tu baru ajer 6 months my MIL dah preggy... tup2 keluar lelaki!!!!! alangkah bahagianya family FIL... sebabnya first 3 anak dia sumer pompuan... alhamdulillah my hubby paling berjaya - tapi yg lenlain pun berjaya jugak... diorang pilih nak jadik cikgu2... cuma my hubby jadik banker... pas tu sekolah pulak pandai and then men'tersohor'kan nama FIL dengan kepandaian dia... dapat gi sekola bagus, dpt scholarship... rezeki FIL and family... pas my hubby my MIL preggy lagi 3 orang - sumer pompuan lagi... anak ke lapan and sembilan (now 15 and 12 respectively) baru la boys balik...
so interpretation wrong timing tu terpulang... macam many postings yg i baca, insyaAllah rezeki tu ada... |
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ms dpt tahu pregnant second child pon i terkujat...
it was unexpected, tak sedap nak kate wrong timing...
tp yen yg gelisah... masa tu my first baby baru 7 bulan i ms start pregnant...
my hb ok happy ajerr... die byk membantu yen mental and fizikal...
lagikpon anak tu rezeki, kalo betul nak jarakkan anak... mmg kene amik precautions laa.. susah mau plan2 sendiri...
alhamdulillahhh bila second baby lahir... rase hapy sgt dpt boy...
dah sepasang anak yen... |
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Originally posted by yen_mamayen at 5-9-2006 10:27 AM
ms dpt tahu pregnant second child pon i terkujat...
it was unexpected, tak sedap nak kate wrong timing...
tp yen yg gelisah... masa tu my first baby baru 7 bulan i ms start pregnant...
my hb o ...
Yang bestnyer dua2 membesar sama2, main sama dan mcm kembar lak kan...:love: |
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Originally posted by arremyn at 5-9-2006 08:35 AM
Sidih biler dengar dari mulut mak apak mengatakan baby ni wrong timing, org lain punya la susah nak dapat.
Like me I was wrong timing child, age different me and my bro is 10 years so my mum tol ...
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Kalau pendapat kawan-kawan i pulak, kalau husband dia kasi kata putus "NO", dierorang bertungku lumus cari method nak menggugurkan janin tu, ada yg makan panadol & coke, nenas, ragi, g klinik ambik injection.....the last option, kalau janin tu membesar ...ABORTION....i pun dengar jerr kalau kakak2 tu bercerita cos I nie setahun jagung lagi....lagipun kakak2 tu lagi alim dari i...:lebai::lebai: tapi tak sangka lah dierorang sanggup buat cam tu....
Sebab bagi mereka, restu SUAMI dierorang lagi penting..cos dierorang tak nak mengandung kalau tak dapat support dari suami...Ada jugak kerr SUAMI macam tu kat dunia sekarang niee...:geram: |
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Originally posted by Mmy79 at 5-9-2006 11:52 AM
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Kalau pendapat kawan-kawan i pulak, kalau husband dia kasi kata putus "NO", dierorang bertungku lumus cari method nak menggugurkan janin tu, ada yg makan panadol &a ...
Waaa koci takleh imagine la ada ibu ibu yang mcm ni sanggup nak gugurkan rezeki yang ALLAH beri...bukan ke hukumnya haram? Dan suami diorang pun tak tau hukum ke?
Apapun, anak itu rezeki, mungkin nasib sesetengah dari kita mudah mengandung sebab tu tak tau rasa bersyukur n anggap benda mcm ni sebagai perkara remeh, lain kesnya bagi orang yang susah mengandung, n tak pernah pun rasa/tau apa rasa mengandung...golongan yang ni lebih menghargai kurniaan ALLAH n teruja uja nak rasa pregnant...
Memang betul anak itu rezeki, anak itu dugaan...apapun percaya setiap kejadian ada hikmahnya... |
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ermm.... sorry ye but teh nak syer la skit pasal wrong timing nih...
second preggy teh, teh kata wrong time coz masa tuh teh dlm proses nak divorce ngan husband. pastu keadaan kewangan yg sgt2 melarat di tambah dgn tekanan perasaan. nasib baik my family byk support dari segi mental, and kat ofis pun ramai yg buat teh happy. samapi la teh terjumpa forum cari nih. then teh cuba kuat semangat. mmg teh sayang juga pada baby tapi at the same time sedih dia hadir dlm keadaan yg teh tak stabil.
pastu masa nak deliver tuh baby sangkut jap.... maybe baby stress kut. tapi alhamdulillah segalanya selamat... and she is very cute...:love: lahirnya dia ke dunia ini, her dad berubah 90%. syukur.
rezeki anak anak teh mmg byk. teh naik pangkat, naik gaji, and teh jadi semakin kuat mentally..... |
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Originally posted by Mmy79 at 5-9-2006 11:52 AM
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Kalau pendapat kawan-kawan i pulak, kalau husband dia kasi kata putus "NO", dierorang bertungku lumus cari method nak menggugurkan janin tu, ada yg makan panadol &a ...
YA ALLAH!!! kesiannya pada baby tu, tergamak depa ye!!! |
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Originally posted by tehlaut at 5-9-2006 03:37 PM
ermm.... sorry ye but teh nak syer la skit pasal wrong timing nih...
second preggy teh, teh kata wrong time coz masa tuh teh dlm proses nak divorce ngan husband. pastu keadaan kewangan yg sgt2 m ...
Tulah hikmah yg kita tak nampak, musti Teh bersyukur sangatkan...:pray: |
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Originally posted by tehlaut at 5-9-2006 03:37 PM
ermm.... sorry ye but teh nak syer la skit pasal wrong timing nih...
second preggy teh, teh kata wrong time coz masa tuh teh dlm proses nak divorce ngan husband. pastu keadaan kewangan yg sgt2 m ...
terharu pulak baca cite teh ni..
alhamdulilah happy ending..  |
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selalu memang byk kes yg tak plan.. tapi bila dah dpt tu .. patut bersyukur.. tambah rezeki.. kita ni kena selalu positif..
seronok baca anak-anak wrong timing ni berjaya..
hubby yg tak nak tu.. memang tak patut..
utk kesihatan, my gynae advise.. jarak antara anak should be 15 mths.. kena kasi rahim rehat..
kalau dah ter'rapat', mummies kena jaga kesihatan - take supplement.. for long term..
next time ambil pil.. n more disiplin..
we can always plan, but Allah is the best planner. |
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Post time 4-9-2006 03:53 PM
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