Expose Anak-Anak

my-alja · Post time 5-9-2007 03:13 PM

isu gakkan kalo anak pandai sgt tak padan dgn usia....tapi satu yg kita kena ingatkan diri, anak2 yg pandai dlm matematik takkan pastinya pandai dlm semua perkara...even da vinci yg genius tu pun gagal nak belajar latin sampai dia mati....

jadi pd anak2 yg cerdik contohnya dlm matematik, anggapkan saja pelajaran kat sekolah tu sebagai ulangkaji pd dia, org pandai pun selalu lupa

...jadi kena rajin2lah mak/ayah nie bersekongkol dgn cikgu, expose dia dlm benda yg dia kurang pandai...dun tell me adi putra yg genius tu tahu semua benda....tu sebab bila org2 sibuk sgt pasal dia, for me ...dia masih kanak2, jgn sebab dia pandai satu subjek...kita drag dia supaya jadi tua sebelum usia, tak adil pd dia...

dan pd anak2 nie, memanglah depa perlukan guidance...katalah dia balik kata, alah...umi senang sgt soalan dia, cikgu tak pandai ajar...kita kena patahkan percakapan dia seumpama itu, kita kena ajar dia lihat dlm konteks yg lebih luas....lihat sekeliling kawan2 yg blom pandai, cemana dia kena sesuaikan dgn persekitaran yg kawan2 lain masih kurang pandai cam dia......yg salah, kawan me kata...memang cikgu nie tak tumpukan pd anak dia yg advance tu!!....ello, kalo dah advance sgt, jgn hantar sekolah gomenlah...

pagi tadi me dgr isu nie dlm tv, dia kata....sifat kebergantungan mak/ayah dgn pusat tuisyen memburkkan lagi keadaan nie, sebab cikgu disana akan ajar benda advance pd anak2 nie, jika depa masuk sekolah biasa...cikgu ada silibus dia sendiri, dan anak2 akan bersifat tak endah dan ada yg kurang ajar sebab dia dah rasa dia pandai...jadi kat sini, peranan mak/ayah amatlah diperlukan utk tarik sifat anak2 nie supaya alert ....

jadi pd saya, exposure tak salah tapi anak2 kena tahu dimana tempat dia...

[ Last edited by my-alja at 5-9-2007 03:14 PM ]

luv_ma · Post time 5-9-2007 03:17 PM

betul sngt.
ada budak yg pandei otak kiri,otak kanan tak sngt.begitulah sebaliknya.

macademia · Post time 5-9-2007 03:22 PM

Originally posted by sha_n at 5-9-2007 03:10 PM
emm....
ni bukan sal activity kt sekolah tu..
ni lebih kepada pembelajaran..

bukan setakat sekolah je sha tanye..
lebih lg..
contoh..Klau one boy tu dah expert sgt ABC b4 go to school..the ...

oh sorry, tapi pada mac we should look at the environment of the school as a whole. Itu yg buat budak ceria dan semangat atau bored.

Lagipun, apa yg mac tulis kat situ bukannya activity luaran. Those were done masa classes, part of learning, belajar pasal pets masa science, english month activities di buat selama 10 mins masa english class, belajar pasal moon masa sains and pasal hari merdeka during arts class/bm class/english class depending on what the activity is. ambik masa 10 mins jer masa class. Tapi prizes diberi masa assembly end of the month.

Benda2 ni yg buat learning fun at school. Walaupun benda yg di ajar sama.

sha_n · Post time 5-9-2007 03:23 PM

ha...ni la die yg sha nak tanye...
actually bukan isu sekolah or kindergarden..
lebih kepada budak yg terlalu pandai..tp tk sesuai ngan umur...
parents yg terlalu nak bg anak pandai..ajar mcm2..
kadang2 tk sesuai ngan umur anak....

macademia · Post time 5-9-2007 03:26 PM

Originally posted by my-alja at 5-9-2007 03:13 PM
isu gakkan kalo anak pandai sgt tak padan dgn usia....tapi satu yg kita kena ingatkan diri, anak2 yg pandai dlm matematik takkan pastinya pandai dlm semua perkara...even da vinci yg genius tu pun ...

very true.

PAstu kadang2 bila jumpa cikgu, baru kita prasan, walaupun anak kita pandai....... ada anak org yg lebih pandai.....

arasham · Post time 5-9-2007 03:27 PM

betul tu belajar buka sekadar 3M sekarang tapi
kena seimbang IQ dan EQ

my-alja · Post time 5-9-2007 03:55 PM

Originally posted by arasham at 5-9-2007 03:27 PM
betul tu belajar buka sekadar 3M sekarang tapi
kena seimbang IQ dan EQ

plg tipikal mak2 yg ada ...bila anak dah boleh buat matematik advance, dah rasa anak tu genius..kalo dah genius, they expect the teachers will accomodate the kid....nie mentality selfish!...kita hantar anak2 utk extra class by choice but we cannot expect cikgu2 sekolah gomen nak ikut bontot anak kita sorang aje....

nie cakap thru pengalaman berkawan2 dgn mak2 ambitious kat my area, anak umur 4thn masuk kumon ....anak dah leh buat sampai level budak darjah 2 kat sekolah, dia citer anak dia akan ada masalah kat sekolah gomen nanti....i tanya dia , what do you expect?...dan anak nie selain dia pandai matemaik dia sgt pemalu nak socialise dgn rakan2 sebaya, berkepit dgn mak dia ...duduk atas riba memanjang jika kami berjumpa...

sorry to say, me lagi risau anak yg takleh nak socialise drp tak pandai buat matematik

sha_n · Post time 5-9-2007 04:07 PM

huhuhu..payah la gitu kan...
ramai parent gitu...
ajar anak tk ikut age...sume nk anak pandai cpt..tp tk sesuai ngan age..
padahal sume tu byk pro & kontra nya..

macademia · Post time 5-9-2007 04:08 PM

Originally posted by my-alja at 5-9-2007 03:55 PM

plg tipikal mak2 yg ada ...bila anak dah boleh buat matematik advance, dah rasa anak tu genius..kalo dah genius, they expect the teachers will accomodate the kid....nie mentality selfish!...k ...

mac melopong jer le.... budak 4 tahun buat keje std 2?

Why?

Mac yg nak anak conquer dalam kelas dia pun dah ramai yg geleng kepala .... in kan budak 4 tahun nak conquer silibus std2....

sha_n · Post time 5-9-2007 04:19 PM

tu kes parents yg terlalu nak anak die pandai la tu.....
smpai tk sesuai ngan kemampuan anak..

my-alja · Post time 5-9-2007 04:34 PM

isk, isk, sik mac and sha...memula me kenal kawan nie, mulut nie takleh tutup sebab melopong!

....sebelum nie, me cuma dgr tapi tak pernah jumpa bersembang...

me tahu dia mak yg prihatin, tapi jgn over tu aje.....sian anak2....

sha_n · Post time 5-9-2007 04:41 PM

huhu..

mmg cian betul..tekanan kot budak tu..tu yg die tk pandai nak sosial...

mummydhani · Post time 5-9-2007 04:45 PM

could it b bcoz his inborn personality?
given time & some encouragement, mb die bleh improve...

[ Last edited by mummydhani at 5-9-2007 04:46 PM ]

luv_ma · Post time 5-9-2007 06:14 PM

susah nk bg pndapat.

my-alja · Post time 5-9-2007 06:20 PM

Originally posted by mummydhani at 5-9-2007 04:45 PM
could it b bcoz his inborn personality?
given time & some encouragement, mb die bleh improve...

memang inborn, memang boleh improve...
cuma priority kita nie berbeza, antara anak boleh bersosial dgn pandai matematik.....ramai yg pilih nak pandai matematik..semuanya pilihan kita kan

mummydhani · Post time 5-9-2007 06:40 PM

there u go... mb 4 the mother, itu la priority die... mungkin she thinks social skills will eventually develop later on...

my-alja · Post time 5-9-2007 06:45 PM

Originally posted by mummydhani at 5-9-2007 06:40 PM
there u go... mb 4 the mother, itu la priority die... mungkin she thinks social skills will eventually develop later on...

btol dan dgn pilihan jugaklah dia risau anak2 dia terlalu pandai kat sekolah nanti

macademia · Post time 6-9-2007 08:31 AM

Originally posted by mummydhani at 5-9-2007 06:40 PM
there u go... mb 4 the mother, itu la priority die... mungkin she thinks social skills will eventually develop later on...

Understood. But at 4?

mummydhani · Post time 6-9-2007 08:59 AM

mac, the mum knows her child better

selagi anak die x terseksa batin, it's stil ok kan...

my nephew at 4 dh lancar membaca, siap ayah die subscribe 'anak2 sidek' 4 his reading pleasure. now he's 11, dok g library je la kejenye... he's doing vr well in his study & nvr once he complains sch is boring ke ape ke...

i guess kite kn pandai2 tackle minat anak2 & slalu monitor perkembangan derang... katalah kalu cikgu2 @ sch keep drilling them (yup... that's wat the teachers do @ sch kan...) on the same old stuff, we @ home kn la supplement the kid wit more interesting / advanced stuff...

it's not a bad thing that our kid is one step ahead o others his age... kan?

macademia · Post time 6-9-2007 09:10 AM

Originally posted by mummydhani at 6-9-2007 08:59 AM
mac, the mum knows her child better selagi anak die x terseksa batin, it's stil ok kan...

my nephew at 4 dh lancar membaca, siap ayah die subscribe 'anak2 sidek' 4 his reading pleasure. no ...

yela the mum knows better

My girls semua boleh baca at 4 (not my son). But yela mac ni lain kut, tak sampai hati nak hantar gi belajar/Kumon that early. Playschool lain la.... Kumon is 100% belajar.

You r right about nak anak kita ahead of the rest. I like that too.... hehe... and sometimes guilty in making sure that happens. Tapi tengok mood i la.... samada rajin ke malas nak buat kat they all.