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1. Ustaz aku ajar..baca "Ya Latif" sebelum solat subuh sebanyak 114x
2. cepat2 dapat anak..bila dpt anak..ko akan lebih banyak belajar bersabar... |
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1. Ustaz aku ajar..baca "Ya Latif" sebelum solat subuh sebanyak 114x
2. cepat2 dapat anak..bila dpt anak..ko akan lebih banyak belajar bersabar... |
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1. Ustaz aku ajar..baca "Ya Latif" sebelum solat subuh sebanyak 114x
2. cepat2 dapat anak..bila dpt anak..ko akan lebih banyak belajar bersabar... |
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1. Ustaz aku ajar..baca "Ya Latif" sebelum solat subuh sebanyak 114x
2. cepat2 dapat anak..bila dpt anak..ko akan lebih banyak belajar bersabar... |
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korang tak tau ke poni tu iyelah pejal taher?? |
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erm...sbenrnya..mak aku pun mcm ni gak..bila nampak ayah aku jerk dia rs nak marah..seb bek bapak aku ni penyabar...tp sebenarnya mak aku kena dengki ngn org (phm2 jela)..dah dkt 5thn kot mak bapak aku sakit..mcm2..aku dpt tau dieorg mmg nak pisah kan mak bapak aku..sbb dengki kot..so skrg Alhamdulillah dah ok sikit...mak aku sedar mende tu salah tp dia tak dapt kontrol diri dia...
so nasihat aku..g la jumpa mana2 ustaz jgn cr bomoh pelik2 lak..tnye pendapat dia..mintak doa2 yang berguna..ataupun mintaklah air penawar..kalo boleh bawak laki sekali..huhu...okies?? |
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Reply #1 newyork's post
hey ny,
ko main api ni. Api yang paling panas. Jangan ingat orang yang cool nidia senang2 je terima... walaupun dia tak terus marah. Tunggu masa je.
Samaada bersedia untuk diceraikan(serius ni), ataupun cari suatu cara yang terbaik untuk menguruskan marah tu.
Sebab secara jujur kalau ko terus macam ni aku tak terkejut sikit pun kalau tak lama lagi ko tgh marah2 mavcam biasa, tiba2 terkeluar perkataan ajaib tu daripada suami ko...
Alu rasa ko ada masalah marah2 kronik, so, seek professional helps sama ada kaunselor ataupun pihak2 lain. |
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Originally posted by newyork at 9-5-2008 12:38 PM 
dear all,
kat sini aku nak minta pandangan dan advice korang semua..aku ada satu sifat mazmumah yg aku rassa sgt kronik..iaitu sifat marah yg terlampau...
lately,aku selalu memarahi husband ...
mungkin sbb awak dah bosan dgn husband awak...ataupun rasa geram sbb tak dpt nafkah batin...
suami lebih gemar main internet tgh malam drp "toooot"
saya cadangkan awak berjumpa dgn pakar kaunseling rumahtangga supaya perkara ini tidak berlanjutan... |
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Reply #49 renzokuken's post
hahaha..aduih..takdela toot tu..ok je nafkah,ntahla mungkin aku ni cepat marah.aku kan cuba cool2 down kan..aish..aku mahu berubah da..anyway kawan2 thanks for the advice...
p/s:aku taknak jadi janda muda okie..... |
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something 2 share....
kpd tuan tanah & sahabat sahabat ahli kelab "amarah.....";
klu larat tlg translate....
NAIL IN THE FENCE
Make sure you read all the way down to the last sentence.
(Most importantly the last sentence)
There once was a little boy who had a bad temper. His Father gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper, he must hammer a nail into the back of the fence. The first day the boy had driven 37 nails into the fence. Over the next few weeks, as he learned to control his anger, the number of nails hammered daily gradually dwindled down. He discovered it was easier to hold his temper than to drive those nails into the fence.
Finally the day came when the boy didn't lose his temper at all. He told his father about it and the father suggested that the boy now pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold his temper.The days passed and the young boy was finally able to tell his father that all the nails were gone. The father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence. He said, "You have done well, my son, but look at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be the same. When you say things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one. You can put a knife in a man and draw it out. It won't matter how many times you say I'm sorry, the wound is still there. " A verbal wound is as bad as a physical one.
Friends are very rare jewels, indeed. They make you smile and encourage you to succeed. They lend an ear, they share words of praise and they always want to open their hearts to us."
terjemahkan "friends" ni dlm situasi anda..... |
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huuhu... malu dgn dr sendrik |
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mana posting aku daaa.takkan thread ni pun naik angin gak...? |
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aku cdgkan kau analisa sikit ciri2 isteri durhaka dan balasan di dlm kubur/akhirat/neraka kelak...pastu everytime nak marah, ko cuba igt balik isi kandungan pembacaan kau...mesti agak ngeri utk meneruskan pemarahan kau tu |
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aku cdgkan kau analisa sikit ciri2 isteri durhaka dan balasan di dlm kubur/akhirat/neraka kelak...pastu everytime nak marah, ko cuba igt balik isi kandungan pembacaan kau...mesti agak ngeri utk meneruskan pemarahan kau tu |
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kejinyer engkau..keji!!keji!!keji!! |
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Reply #50 newyork's post
'p/s:aku taknak jadi janda muda okie....."
abis kor nak jadi janda tua..???? |
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Reply #1 newyork's post
Dalam Ilmu Alam....ada ada 2 jenis Gunung Berapi...Gng Berapi Aktif dan Gunung Berapi Pendam.....
Gunung Berapi Aktif= Selalu muntahkan lahar/ meletup tp tak bahaya sgt...
Gunung Berapi Pendam=Sgt jarang meletup/ muntahkan lahar...tetapi bila meletup...menyebabkan kemusnahan besar pada semua dan dirinya sendiri.....
kalau dlm konsep puan saya blh ibaratkan...
Puan=Gunung Berapi Aktif
Suami Puan=Gunung Berapi Pendam
Hati2 puan...lentur pembaris jgn sampai patah....kalau pembaris patah, takut2 kalau serpihan pembaris tu menikam mata puan..
[ Last edited by matamata at 15-5-2008 03:29 PM ] |
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Reply #58 matamata's post
Ilmu Alam?? Klasik gile subjek ni..Ala2 subjek alam dan manusia gittue..
Ni mesti sekolah jaman matematik digelar Ilmu Hisab kan?
Geografi plak dipanggil Ilmu Alam |
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Reply #58 matamata's post
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takut nyer aku pembaris kene mata.. pembaris kayu ke pembaris besi..?? |
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Category: Cinta & Perhubungan
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Post time 9-5-2008 04:39 PM
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