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Apa yg anda sanggup lakukan utk pertahankan aqidah anak?
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Reply #57 tehlaut's post
hehehe.. i pun selalu 'terminat' dgn species cam ni jugak..! Tapi... diorg tak 'terminat' kat I laaa! hahahaha.. |
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Originally posted by muslyn at 10-8-2006 03:24 PM
hehehe.. i pun selalu 'terminat' dgn species cam ni jugak..! Tapi... diorg tak 'terminat' kat I laaa! hahahaha..
:pmuka:SAMA LA..... |
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Confirm! Azhar Mansor dah convert! Below is an article i found while browsing myislamnetwork
website!
Muslim women who share a secret love
Islam, rather than Western culture抯 focus on sexual freedom, shapes day-to-day reality for a third of the world抯 Anglicans. Malay women who convert to Christianity are forced to live a double-life. KATRIN ARNHOLZ spoke to one of them.
Under Kamariah抯* photo on her Malaysian identification card is her ethnicity. Right under that her gender, and to the left: Islam. But the 28-year-old woman with the angular eyeglasses and the broad smile is Christian. She belongs to the largest ethnic group in Malaysia梩he Malays. According to the official census, Malays number 65 per cent of the population. In Malaysia, Kamariah says, a Malay is a Muslim by definition. 揂 Malay is a Muslim. Full stop, |
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berderrau darah aku bacanya.. imagine! it could be someone you know very closely..
kalau i tahu siapa, i wont hesitate to turn him/her in to the authorirty! |
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Reply #63 muslyn's post
err..bangangnyer malaun2 neh..tergamak tul ler..nak masuk kristian..tak sedar kristian kat ovc tuh jd keldai tunggangan yahudi... |
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tu laa..
Islam is the fastest growing religion in US. In Europe, France. Yet, malaun2 kat msia ni plak nak keluar dr Islam. Yvonne Ridley, journalist UK yg kena captured by Taliban tu pun masuk Islam after that, & Taliban ni laa yg dikatakan paling extreme. Yet she sees the beauty. Kat Msia, Taliban mmg kena kutuk dgn UMNO, SIS,.. etc.. setaraf dgn US kan?
Do you think by sending our children to Islamic school masa kecik can help to kukuhkan their aqidah?
I think tgk sekolah jugak la.. I rasa kalau sekolah agama yg kerajaan punya may not work! But schools & pre schools yg pakai concept khalifah tu InsyaAllah.. because approach diorg lain fm sek agama govn.
I remember my conversation dgn principle Raudah Adni (tadika Adni in Hulu Kelang) dia cerita, masa tgh ajar budak2 yr 1 or 2 or K1 K2 gitu la,.. bila explain Allah sees, Allah hears,.. Allah speaks.. pastu dia tny, how do Allah speak.. ada budak cerdik ni jwb, Allah speaks through Quran.. eeii.. bijaknya.. mmg i geram betul budak2 kenit2 kat sekolah tu ckp english berabuk!! proper english not malaysian english! .. Masa tu pegi ingat nak hantar anak sana,.. sekali bila tgk fees dia.. mak oii.. i can't afford it yet! |
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Originally posted by muslyn at 11-8-2006 11:06 AM
tu laa..
Islam is the fastest growing religion in US. In Europe, France. Yet, malaun2 kat msia ni plak nak keluar dr Islam. Yvonne Ridley, journalist UK yg kena captured by Taliban tu pun masu ...
Tentang Islamic school, itu salah satu caranya lah eventhough its not the only way obviously. Yup tengok sekolah jugak. Masalah yang buli segala kat sekolah agama tu personally I rasa parents pergi dump anak-anak yang memang bermasalah dan memang tak boleh control kat sekolah agama sebab they see Islam as a cure to all the problems Tapi masalahnya pendidikan kat rumah lagi dah tak kena caranya...habis tu macam mana sekolah nak tolong. Last-last salah sekolahlah....biasalah tu...
Been to the school ye muslyn? Yup...the best we could find around so far insyAllah.
[ Last edited by KakFie at 11-8-2006 12:16 PM ] |
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ptt la ek..dulu senior lecturer kat tempt aku..yg sorag nih seme anak2 dia antar islamic prebet..mmg dia ckp salah satu sbbnyer dia nak kurang pengaruh2 tak elok tuh..aku takde le komen pe ms tuh sbb tgh single...takde nak pk tuh seme..skang baghu start pk..semlm korang tune to ch9?ada pasal bdk belasan thn yg minat genre music gothic...astaga..ntah haper2 jek peelnyer bebdk tuh..ngan laki pakai celak (celak tu ok lg) ngan ltk merah2 kat mata..mcm dracula...pakai sayap angel le kononnya..eiii kalo anak aku..aku paku kat dinding sbb nak ikut budaya kak ponti sgt... |
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Originally posted by honeybee1802 at 11-8-2006 11:51 AM
ptt la ek..dulu senior lecturer kat tempt aku..yg sorag nih seme anak2 dia antar islamic prebet..mmg dia ckp salah satu sbbnyer dia nak kurang pengaruh2 tak elok tuh..aku takde le komen pe ms tuh s ...
heh..heh...paku kat dinding...kelakar honey.
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Originally posted by honeybee1802 at 11-8-2006 11:51 AM
ptt la ek..dulu senior lecturer kat tempt aku..yg sorag nih seme anak2 dia antar islamic prebet..mmg dia ckp salah satu sbbnyer dia nak kurang pengaruh2 tak elok tuh..aku takde le komen pe ms tuh s ...
Isshh.. mmg la pelik2 budak2 zaman skrg. Zaman IT plak.. nak dpt info apa pun sng! sky is the limit! dulu kita tak terpikir pun nak jadi dracula yek? apa lagi minat music ala2 vampire nih.. yiishh! kalau anak aku jadi camtu pun, aku paku jugak , honey!
Tapi kak Fie, yg membuli tu seniors yg dah bertahun blajar kat sek tu! for 5 yrs they all tak blajar apa2 ke sampai boleh nak buli & belasah anak org sampai mati? Kalau i jadi mak budak yg kena buli tu, i tak kan maafkan anak dia & mak pak dia.. diorg kena doa lah kat Allah that i lembut hati maafkan diorg.!
Maybe our institusi pendidikan pun byk weaknesses. education di sekolah bukan limited to books, exams, syllabus.. etc.. byk benda nak kena didik anak2 yg bukan fm books & exams.
I came fm a convent school. Masa the 1st few years, our principal nun! during her 'reign' our school tak byk sgt achievements sbb dia sibuk sgt suruh kitorg buat baik sesama manusia lah,.. love each other lah.. bla bla bla bla... & dia ni conservative jugak! dia tak bagi kitorg buat concert nyanyi2 pop songs ke, modern dance ke.. nak nyanyi choir je.. nari, cultural dance je.. masa sports nak tubuhkan cheerleaders pun tak boleh! sekolah lain boleh! waahh time tu mmg kitorg bengang laa.. Cara dia nasihat & tegur budak pun beza sgt.. dia ckp lembut,.. baik2.. jadi kitorg yg 'bengang; dgn dia tak jadi nak melawan ke,.. apa ke.. sbb malu dgn budi bahasa dia.. although different faith tapi i mmg respect dia. Kalau cikgu lain, mmg pekik nya kat kitorg!
but of course ada flaws laa.. utk org mcm i yg cepat lembut hati & rasa malu, boleh la jln.. tapi for budak2 yg mmg tak mkn saman, mmg kena guna kekerasan sikit! after she retired, we got an Indian principal. Mak oii garang gila! dia boleh pegi tiap2 kelas, give out our report cards & jgn harap can get away without long lectures & threats kalau dpt 'merah'! Nasib baik la i tak kena! semua org mmg kecut! tapi time ni displine better & our academic results improved! Yg best about her,.. she allowed us to perform apa we suka (but proper dress code applies!) & our cheerleading group was formed tapi syaratnya, skirt must not be above knees. kalau pendek, kena pakai tights! padan muka budak2 yg teringin nak 'menyeksi' masa sports sbb nak ngorat boys! hahahah.
5 years in the school, tak pernah ada kes gaduh pun! buli pun tak de.. kalau ada pun gaduh mesti budak melayu pengkid, yg berebut budak pompuan! ntah apa2 ntah! but tak serious sgt la.. verbal assault tu ada laa.. kenapa byk involve budak melayu ye? or media cuma highlight kes malayu. lagi diorg suka kalau sek agama plak.
another school yg i suka is Qids in Tmn Tun or Dsara.. tak sure. I saw on Halal Journal. It's the 1st Islamic school yg i tgk bersih sgt! |
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Kalau sesiapa yang rajin carilah buku Pendidikan Anak-anak Dalam Islam by Abdullah Nasih Ulwan. Comes in 2 volumes.
Merangkumi semua aspek pendidikan dalam Islam ie. Keimanan, Moral, Seks, Rohani, Jasmani, Mental etc. Kira complete la.
Tak habis-habis nak promote buku ni......No personal interest cuma most comprehensive I have read so far...itu yang tak habis-habis baca tu...dok asyik ulang je..:bgrin: |
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Reply #70 muslyn's post
my previous ustazah kat skolah menengah gitu gak..sayu jek igtkan dia tegur kami pasal tudung..yg kite pun ms tuh zmn malaun lgk kan..masuk tinga kanan kuar tinga kiri le...cian ustazah...
wah..korang bc malaymail ari nih?ada komen citer rempittt...wahh..dasatt tul karyawan mesia skang..very the daring la.. |
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Originally posted by honeybee1802 at 11-8-2006 02:34 PM
my previous ustazah kat skolah menengah gitu gak..sayu jek igtkan dia tegur kami pasal tudung..yg kite pun ms tuh zmn malaun lgk kan..masuk tinga kanan kuar tinga kiri le...cian ustazah...
wah..ko ...
disebabkan honey seru pasal rempit ni kak fie pun dah baca malay mail online. Melopong akak.:
Sib baik anak-anak tak suka tengok cerita Melayu, kalau tidak mesti confuse diorang pasal Melayu dan Islam. Kelakunya tak beza pun dengan depa-depa yang bukan Islam. Kononnya being professional and creative in acting....:ketuk::ketuk:
MALAYSIA BOLEH
:pompom::pompom:
[ Last edited by KakFie at 11-8-2006 02:48 PM ] |
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Reply #72 honeybee1802's post
my ustazah pernah hambat i dgn payung dia sbb i & kawan i panjat pokok in our baju kurung putih hijau tuh! apa lagi! terpaksalah panjat lagi tinggi.
haa.. wpun sekolah convent tapi kalau we all tak pakai tudung or selendang masa kelas agama, ustazah halau dr kelas. Erra Fazira dah pernah kena tapi dia rilek jek! I pernah terlupa pakai baju kurung hari ada agama, so takut punya pasal, nyorok kat library. Hehehe..last2, i & kwn2 yg 'dasyat2' ni pakai jugak tudung willingly. tak sapa paksa pun! Suka ustazah!
Kak Fie, makin mencabar nak membesarkan anak di Msia ye? Agama Islam tapi buat benda haram. Perangai sama je mcm org bukan Islam. Dah la akhlak org islam makin lama makin runtuh! Worse, kerajaan Islam Hadhari kita ni allow this to happen. I pernah terpikir mcm nak migrate je ke NZ ke, France ke, UK ke, Canada. tapi bukan big cities la..! Nak cari tpt yg crime rate rendah & tak byk entertainment. Sedih sgt la bila tgk umat Islam di negara Islam yg bukan takat tak practice Islam,.. menentang plak tuh! hmm South Africa pun sounds interesting.. |
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Originally posted by KakFie at 11-8-2006 11:59 AM
heh..heh...paku kat dinding...kelakar honey.
:bgrin:
macam cite pontianak pulak. nak paku-paku..
saya pernah baca.. kita kena selalu amalkan doa supaya anak-anak kita sentiasa dlm peliharaan Allah... dulu, kini dan selamanya. ada satu cerita yg seorg bapa tunggal kena jaga anak-anaknya.. tiap-tiap malam lepas solat isya' dia buat solat hajat utk anak-anak dia.. sampai anak-anaknya besar.. alhamdulillah.. anak-anaknya memang bagus-bagus.. perkara pasal aqidah ni memang susah nak cakap. i think kita kena aware n alert dgn family members & close family, sentiasa ingat-mengingati antara satu sama lain..
ada sorng member tu macam dah terjebak dgn a group of people yg kononya study Al-quran, but end up question macam-macam pasal quran.. rasa macam kumpulan sesat pulak.. the difficult part is to make her realise yg dia dah tersilap jln tapi.. bayangkan everybody knows she is wrong tapi tak sampai hati nak confront her.. yg dia ni dok ajak org join.. kalau dah kata org islam ni tak payah solat - ni sah-sahlah ajaran sesat.. tu pun tak boleh sedar.. payah betul..
may allah bless us.. amin |
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takutnya lily bila baca n lihat perkembangan ttg tergugatnya akidah umat islam kat malaysia sekarang
Mintak Allah jauhkan dari kita dan keturunan kita. Ya Allah, peliharakanlah kami |
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Originally posted by HerSheys at 9-8-2006 01:39 PM
dulu ade gak dengar2 rumours psl datuk azhar mansur ni... xsangka.. betul rupenye...
nauzubillah...
SALAAAM...
TAK SALAH AKK DULUU, MASA DATUK AZHAR MANSUR NI KELILING DENIAA.. LAYARNYA PATAH DIPANAH PETIR, DI SAAT DAN KETIKA ITU, DIA TAK FIKIR KE AMARAN ALLAH..SBB MASA NK MULAKAN PELAYARAN TENGOK GAK WIFE N KID DIA.. MEMANG TK NAMPAK MCM AMALKAN CARA HIDUP ISLAM PUUN..
KEMUDIAN, KELILING BUMI ALLAH NI, DIA TAK RASA KE OR HAYATI KEBESARAN ALLAH?? ISSH.. KALAU ALLAH DAH TUTUPKAN PINTU HATI, HANYA ALLAH JUA LAH YG DPT MEMBUKANYA YE.. |
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Once we become a parent, tugas kita ni tak pernah habis until we die! tu la my mom ckp.
Masa kecik, dugaan cara lain, bila anak besar sikit.. lain pulak.. bila teenager,.. problem lain plak, bila besar, dah kawin, dah ada anak pun, kdg2 ada problem lain jugak. tak habis2 roles parents ni.. sampai la mati!
Dr kecik sampai la I & adik i yg dah ada family of our own, pun tak habis2 kena jerit "pi solat! cepat!" My mom mesti marah kalau we all sengaja lengahkan solat! my mom selalu ckp, dr kecik sampai dah ada anak, tak habis2 kena dok suruh pi solat.. pi solat! hahah.. i always tell her, that's what mothers are for! " with a grin!
yesterday, my brother bwk anak dia potong rambut sampai botak! pastu dia ckp, "mcm tok sami!" my mom marah terus tampar kat dahi dia.. my bro gelak je.. nauzubillah..she didn't think it was funny! & his wife thanked my mom for slapping him on the forehead! hahaha.. |
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Reply #78 muslyn's post
huhu..kata2 makbapak nih mcm satu doa utk anak2...honey pun kalo hubby kuar perkataan yg tak sepatutnya mmmg marah sangat kat dia...kita penat2 beranak dia nak doakan something yg tak kena lak..mana leh..last 2 days cuti..ngk citer indon kat tv3..huh..ada ke siap ngan fairy lak..ada lak dok sebut Allah..bikin confuse bebdk la nih...apo punyer citer daaaa.. |
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Originally posted by muslyn at 11-8-2006 11:06 AM
tu laa..
Islam is the fastest growing religion in US. In Europe, France. Yet, malaun2 kat msia ni plak nak keluar dr Islam. Yvonne Ridley, journalist UK yg kena captured by Taliban tu pun masu ...
Muslyn..berapa ha fest kat sekolah Adni ni..???? |
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