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ALL ABOUT : to spank or not to spank by gam_hajah & sha_n
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Originally posted by iqyniqaa at 13-4-2006 10:26 PM
ermm.. sya ni jenis bising mulut dulu.. kalo tak jln gak, baru cubit/pukul.. masa time marah mmg tak ingatt.. sbb setan2 sama betandukk duk cucuk2 kite.. lepas dgr anak2 meraung..." sakitt.. s ...
iqy, anak gam pun mcm tu lebih takut kat hubby w/pun hubby lagi kurang bising cam gam ni. klw ngan gam ni mmg tak herannya dia |
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Originally posted by AiNuL at 14-4-2006 10:23 AM
actually...i pun alami masalah yg sama...
cepat sgt hot temper....
gile2 nyer hot temper...
anak i 2 org...
sorang 3 thn... sorang 2 thn...
dulu ada maid... kurang laa skit temper i tu...
now ...
klw dah penat tui ainul, mmg cepat je darah naik kan. semua punn naik la klw dah penat tu. hubby ainul ada gak improvement bila ainul ckp camtu. hubby gam ckp pun mcm tak ckp. baik tak yah cakap langsung. letih la dpt laki yg tak membantu ni. dah la tak membantu, suka buat semak lak tu, 2 x 5 je ngan anak dia. |
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Originally posted by honey_dew at 14-4-2006 09:16 PM
I pernah naik antu pukul my son ngan hanger sampai lekat belakang dia..sekarang marah i tunjuk jari peringatan kat dia sometimes ada gak kena penangan kat belakang dia. Memang kesian tetapi kita ni ...
anak gam yg suka menjawab tu, klw gam marah siap dia lak angkat tangan cakap kat kita ' nak kena?'. dah terbalik kot lak. aduisss mmg menduga tul la besarkan anak ni. |
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Originally posted by MamaIlya at 14-4-2006 11:24 PM
Parents Sha pun cenggitu juga. Dgn kitorang adik beradik dulu, mak aiii...kemain lagi garangnyer. Shah pernah kena pukul, kena lempang etc. padahal bukannya jahat sangat pun (cuma suka menjawab ...
tu la psl gam tak nak anak gam tinggl ngan parent / parents in law. diorang ni protective abis ngan cucu |
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Originally posted by Core at 15-4-2006 11:33 AM
AKu pulak jenis mulut bising tapi tgn jarang naik, tapi kalau aku marah tu, memang cam halilintar lah. Bayangkanlah, anak aku ada 3 org, dua lelaki, sorang pompuan. Maid takde dan aku pulak kerja. ...
core, gam pun klw anak duk diam je tu mmg risau. mesti nak pergi investigate. bebudak ni kadang tu terlebih kreatif. |
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kak fie, kena quote kak fie klw tak lupa lak nasihat org semua. Alhamdulillah byk yg reply. lagipun kurang sibuk sket ni, nak naikkan reading access tu pun sama hehe... |
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To Spank Or Not To Spank????????
Caman pendapat korang sume tentang spank anak ni???Jom kita share2 opinion..some of my friend she believes in spanking..dia cakap that's why la anak dia very well behaved.. tapi depends jugak, sbb ada a few mothers yg doesn't believe in spanking, but still anak dia well behaved.. apa pendapat korang???
[ Last edited by sha_n at 2-8-2007 04:58 PM ] |
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Reply #1 sha_n's post
Tak tahu nak cakap la. I baru anak sorang. Maybe other mummy yg dah ramai anak or yg dah besar-besar boleh bagi pendapat kan. |
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cth...
Anak cousin sha umur dlm 3-4thn kot.tp serius mmg parent dia x suka nak spanking..Kadang-kala klau gi umah dia,abis peha mama anak dia gigit.Anak dia mmg suka menggigit.Klau blk kmpg,mana2 bdk kecil, mmg jd mangsa gigitan dia la but parent die ni still tk marah,just say"NO..NO".
Skrg gi nursery lagi haru,siap boleh ketuk kepala lagi.
mmg budak2 suka xplore,tp tengok la pd keadaan,tmpt n behave....
Depends la....
mcm mn nak didik anak2..Klau perasan,sbb tue org2 dulu lebih hormat kat guru coz spanking..cuba tengok bdk2 zmn skrg,siap guru kena buli.
Just opinion.... |
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Reply #4 Syd's post
tq..cari gak td thread nih..tp tk jumpe.. |
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rasanya..bnyk gak dah discuss spank ni..makbpk lah..cekgu lah..effectnya.. |
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to me, kita besarkan anak2 kita mengikut sikap & perangai anak2 tu.
setiap kanak2 berbeza. maybe some kids need spanking, some don't.
i think, if soft approach doesn't work, & after dah try mcm2 (everything under the sun except spanking) keadaan tak berubah, then maybe can try soft spanking kot? tah la. |
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Reply #4 Syd's post
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tu syd dah jawapkn.. |
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if u ask me...hehehehe, tgh waras..the answer will be NO
tapi bila badan penat, otak pusing, anak menangis, rumah sepah, makanan takde, daddy o/station...jawapan nyer MUNGKIN.... |
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Reply #9 my-alja's post
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tu la..ikut mood...mama ni mood berubah ikut keadaan.. |
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Reply #9 my-alja's post
for me, bukan mungkin lagi
MEMANG
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time 'lampu merah lglah..' |
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depends on the situation & tahap kesalahan yg dilakukan...tapi budak2 kecit tk tau ape so rase cam tk adil klau kite pukul diorg tiap kali buat salah...
[ Last edited by sha_n at 2-8-2007 05:11 PM ] |
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ini apa yang riz buat kat my hariz, anak yang sulung 5 tahun..yang kecik si baby kimi x tahu benda lagi....
mmg boleh katakan riz jarang sgt pukul dia...rasanya boleh katakan x pernah, sbb hariz dah terbiasa kalau riz tinggikan suara sikit, mmg dia dah takut.so x perlu pukul2 ni....buat masa nilah... adik dia si tembam kimi x tahu lagi camner pulak perangainya.. |
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Post time 2-8-2007 04:30 PM
Post time 2-8-2007 04:36 PM
