|
aku ngk bod belah saner ader org tanya pasal pengguguran nih.so haku ader beb kemusykilan:
Pertama:pengguguran janin disebabkan ia boleh memberi impak kesihatan kepd ibu.setahu aku yg nih bleh kan?
kedua:apa plak hukumnya seseorg itu menggugurkan janin disebabkan janin itu mempunyai kecacatan yg menyebabkan dia tidak dpt berdikari biler dewasa?apakah plak hukumnya sekiranya seseorg itu menggugurkan janinnya sekiranya dikhuatiri janin itu mempunyai kecacatan lain spt down syndrom,cacat anggota dan sebagainya?
ketiga:apakah hukummya seseorg menggugurkan janin itu atas sbb kewangan?ditakuti tidak mempunyai sumber kewangan itu membesarkan bila lahir kelak?tp haku penah dgr Allah dah ttetapkan rezeki utk setiap anak Adam kan?cuma perlu usaha kan?
[ Last edited by antiQue at 20-10-2006 06:13 AM ] |
Rate
-
1
View Rating Log
-
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Bab hukum-hakam ini kena org alim yang jawab, kalau ada member2 yang nak jawab perlu ada sumber, nyatakan dari mana hukum itu dikeluarkan..
Doa supaya anak cukup sifat.
Di sanalah Zakariya mendo'a kepada Tuhannya seraya berkata: "Ya Tuhanku, berilah aku dari sisi Engkau seorang anak yang baik. Sesungguhnya Engkau Maha Pendengar do'a ". (Ali-imran:38) |
Rate
-
1
View Rating Log
-
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Originally posted by honeybee1802 at 19-3-2006 10:37 PM
aku ngk bod belah saner ader org tanya pasal pengguguran nih.so haku ader beb kemusykilan:
Pertama:pengguguran janin disebabkan ia boleh memberi impak kesihatan kepd ibu.setahu aku yg nih bleh kan ...
mmm setahu meow berdosa besor kalu kita sengaja gugurkan janin tak kirale hasil belum nikah atau sudah nikah...akan tetapi diharuskan sekiranya mendatangkan mudarat kepada ibu or baby dlm rahim 2 maka diharuskan gugurkannya...
pasal pertanyaan ke3 tu, aiseh setiap baby yg diberi Allah tu ada rezekinya sendiri...jangan takut...jadi kalu semata-mata nak gugurkan baby tanpa alasan kukuh cuma takut tak cukup rezeki....itu tidak dibolehkan jugakle...tak caya tanyale ustat...wallahuallam:stp: |
Rate
-
1
View Rating Log
-
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Originally posted by kuman at 20-3-2006 05:24 PM
Bab hukum-hakam ini kena org alim yang jawab, kalau ada member2 yang nak jawab perlu ada sumber, nyatakan dari mana hukum itu dikeluarkan..
I agree with you tapi orang alim pun perlu juga yang bersifat adil and not male chauvinist pig. |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
kalau tak mau anak tu jangan baik jangan buat
menyusahkan orang aje
anak tu anugerah tuhan kalau takut jadi
anak pakai le kondum ke atau lebih baik jangan buat langsung
habis cerita
:kant::kant::kant: |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
yup..yup like kuman said...i think not only me,tp org lain pun nak tahu jugak berserta dalil2nya kan?sad to say ada women yg sanggup menggadaikan jiwa utk buat pengguguran dgn cara haram yg tak selamat. |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Pengguguran harus jika munasabah
Bersama: MOHD. FARID RAVI ABDULLAH
Soalan
1. Saya seorang wanita Melayu beragama Islam berusia 42 tahun dan seorang ibu kepada tiga anak yang sedang membesar. Anak pertama berumur 10 tahun, kedua 7 tahun dan ketiga 5 setengah tahun. Anak kedua saya adalah anak istimewa yang menghidapi sindrom autisme dan hiperaktif.
Beberapa hari lalu doktor mengesahkan saya hamil tujuh minggu. Menurut doktor, janin saya belum mempunyai nadi dan denyutan jantung. Berdosakah saya jika saya menggugurkan kandungan saya ini atas beberapa faktor iaitu:
a) Usia yang melebihi 40 dan berisiko walaupun doktor mengesahkan saya sihat dan tidak mempunyai masalah kesihatan.
b) Masalah kewangan di mana saya dan suami memerlukan perbelanjaan yang banyak terutama untuk anak istimewa kami yang memerlukan pendidikan khas iaitu yuran persekolahannya RM550 sebulan dan rawatan terapi RM200 seminggu (mencecah lebih RM1,000 untuk anak ini seorang). Ini tidak termasuk perbelanjaan untuk anak-anak yang lain dan keperluan harian. Saya faham setiap manusia yang diciptakan Allah itu ada rezekinya masing-masing.
c) Kebimbangan yang amat sangat jika saya berisiko untuk mendapat anak istimewa lagi. Memelihara anak istimewa terlalu mencabar dan memerlukan tahap kesabaran yang tinggi di mana kadang-kadang tidak mampu menanggungnya walaupun saya sangat insaf dan maklum bahawa setiap kejadian itu ada hikmah di sebaliknya. Adakah menggugurkan kandungan yang belum bernyawa sama seperti membunuh seorang manusia iaitu berdosa besar? Tolong berikan saya nasihat sama ada saya perlu meneruskan kandungan ini walaupun saya tidak pernah mengharapkannya.
JAWAPAN: Kebanyakan ulama mengharamkan pengguguran kandungan tanpa sebarang alasan yang munasabah sama ada sebelum ditiupkan roh ataupun selepas. Namun terdapat ulama mengharuskannya sebelum ditiupkan roh, dan sebahagiannya pula mengehadkan usia janin tidak lebih dari 40 hari.
Sekiranya pengguguran itu disebabkan oleh alasan yang munasabah, ia diharuskan oleh syarak bahkan mungkin wajib di dalam situasi tertentu. Untuk menjawab soalan puan ini, eloklah saya menitipkan di sini fatwa-fatwa ulama antarabangsa yang sempat saya baca. (lihat Fatwa Ulama-ulama Arab Saudi No. 140 bertarikh 20/6/1407H; dan Fatwa Majma |
Rate
-
1
View Rating Log
-
|
|
|
|
|
|
nurini This user has been deleted
|
Abortion?
i know abortion is forbid in Islam because it is killing. But is there any situation that it can be allowed?
if a girl is pregant but unmarried, what can she do? If she abort but promise not to do it again, will Allah forgive? |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Originally posted by nurini at 12-8-2006 06:57 PM
i know abortion is forbid in Islam because it is killing. But is there any situation that it can be allowed?
if a girl is pregant but unmarried, what can she do? If she abort but promise not to do ...
Promise not to do what again? Not to involve in premarital sex or not to perform abortion again?
I consider what "not to do again" is taubat. Taubat is not simply promising never to do it again.
Here is a story about a companion whose taubat has among the highest taubat.
Sulaiman b. Buraida reported on the authority of his father that Ma'iz bin Malik came to Allah's Apostle (may peace be upon him) and said to him: "Messenger of Allah, purify me". Whereupon he said: "Woe be upon you, go back, ask forgiveness of Allah and turn to Him in repentance".
He (the narrator) said that he went back not far, then came and said: "Allah's Messenger, purify me". Whereupon Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) said: "Woe be upon you, go back and ask forgiveness of Allah and turn to Him in repentance".
He (the narrator) said that he went back not far, when he came and said: "Allah's Messenger, purify me". Allah's Apostle (may peace be upon him) said as he had said before".
When it was the fourth time, Allah's Messenger (may, peace be upon him) said: "From what am I to purify you?" He said: "From adultery".
Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) asked if he had been mad. He was informed that he was not mad. He said: "Has he drunk wine?" A person stood up and smelt his breath but noticed no smell of wine. Thereupon Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) said: "Have you committed adultery?" He said: "Yes". He made pronouncement about him and he was stoned to death.
The people had been (divided) into two groups about him (Ma'iz). One of them said: "He has been undone for his sins had encompassed him". Whereas another said: "There is no repentance more excellent than the repentance of Ma'iz, for he came to Allah's Apostle (may peace be upon him) and placing his hand in his (in the Holy Prophet's) hand said: 'Kill me with stones'". (This controversy about Ma'iz) remained for two or three days. Then came Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) to them (his Companions) as they were sitting. He greeted them with salutation and then sat down and said: "Ask forgiveness for Ma'iz b. Malik". They said: "May Allah forgive Ma'iz bin Malik". Thereupon Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) said: "He (Ma'iz) has made such a repentance that if that were to be divided among a people, it would have been enough for all of them." |
|
|
|
|
|
|
anakperantau This user has been deleted
|
Originally posted by nurini at 12-8-2006 06:57 PM
i know abortion is forbid in Islam because it is killing. But is there any situation that it can be allowed?
if a girl is pregant but unmarried, what can she do? If she abort but promise not to do ...
Sama ada Allah akan mengampunkan atau tidak, itu adalah bidang kuasa Allah. Tapi masih teringat2 lagi dalam satu ceramah, ustaz menyatakan ada sesetengah golongan yang buat dosa dan minta ampun tapi lepas tu mengulangi lagi dan lagi. Taubat yang sepatutnya dilakukan ialah taubat nasuha, moga2 ALlah mengampunkan.. Kalau negara yang amalkan hukum Islam, memang wajib kena hukum hudud ni jika memang sabit zina. Wallahu a'lam. |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Pil Penguguran
Ader satu pill pengguguran ni yg di approve oleh FDA penggunaannya dan dijual di Farmasi2 seluruh Amerika. Saya rasa pill ni juga dah dijual kat farmasi2 di Malaysia. Walaupun dah approve oleh FDA, tapi penggunaanya pun ada pantang larang dia gak. Sebab 2 remaja kat Amerika mati kena jangkitan bakteria setelah makan pil nih. Baca jer lah link yg sy past kat bwh nih.
http://www.religioustolerance.org/aboru486.htm
http://www.abortbypill.com/
http://www.earlyoptionpill.com/
Tak silap sy, kawan sy yg keje di farmasi pernah citer wujudnyer satu pill. Dimana biler anak2 muda remaja berparti semalam terlupa pakai protection. Keesokan paginyer diorg akan ke farmasi nyer dan minta 'The Pill'. Harga pill ni agak mahal lah.
Ok, katakanlah. Ada seorang remaja kena rogol, dan dia takut sgt termengandung sbb bleh jatuhnyer maruah dier, kerjaya dier, keluarga dier dan anak luar nikah dier nanti di zaman akan datang. Lepas dier kena rogol dier terus makan pil nih, adakah dia akan mendapat dosa seperti membunuh anak dlm kandungan (menggugurkan anak)?
Dia ambil ubat tu untuk menghalang proses pembahagian sel ovum yg telah disenyawakan oleh sperma. Hukum dier tetap jatuh haram ker?
Tambahan plak, masyarakat kita bukannya peduli anak luar nikah tu kerana mak dia kena rogol. Mereka dan keluarga mereka akan dicerca seumur hidup....
Sorry kalau saya cetek ilmu...
[ Last edited by tyrande_81 at 18-10-2006 07:26 PM ] |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Originally posted by tyrande_81 at 18-10-2006 07:08 PM
Ader satu pill pengguguran ni yg di approve oleh FDA penggunaannya dan dijual di Farmasi2 seluruh Amerika. Saya rasa pill ni juga dah dijual kat farmasi2 di Malaysia. Walaupun dah approve oleh FDA, ...
Aku rase kalu setakat sehari kena main lepas tu makan pill tak de benda sebab roh belum lagi ditiup pada janin dan janin pun belum terbentuk sifat2 manusia. Tapi check balik la dgn yg lebih arif, jgn amik 100% jawapan aku. wallahualam
[ Last edited by hi5 at 19-10-2006 01:14 AM ] |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Originally posted by tyrande_81 at 18-10-2006 07:08 PM
Ader satu pill pengguguran ni yg di approve oleh FDA penggunaannya dan dijual di Farmasi2 seluruh Amerika. Saya rasa pill ni juga dah dijual kat farmasi2 di Malaysia. Walaupun dah approve oleh FDA, ...
...the abortion pill dan the morning after pill nie are two different medications altogether...
...the abortion pill tu sememangnya digunakan untuk menggugurkan kandungan...again...kita kena tengok jugak situasi orang yang mengambil obat nie...kalaulah katakan penggunaannya untuk menyelamatkan nyawa si ibu (due to some medical reasons)...then aku rasa tak berdosa kalau ianya diambil...tapi...kalau diambil ngan niat untuk menggugurkan kandungan yang unwanted due to your own folly...then...aku rasa haram lerrr...wallahualam...
...the morning after pill plak different sikit...ianya diambil untuk mencegah daripada berlakunya kehamilan...it must be taken within 72hrs after sexual intercourse...it is supposed to help prevent the ovaries from releasing the egg...and causes some changes in the lining of the uterus making implantation almost not possible...so...kira...dalam rahim tu masih blom ada apa2lah yang nak digugurkan...heh... |
|
|
|
|
|
|
razak This user has been deleted
|
takut ramai yg salah guna aje nanti kalau diperluas penggunaanya...semakin ramai amal sex bebas.... |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Emergency contraception: The morning-after pill
What is it?
Emergency contraception (also known as the morning-after pill) is a high dosage of the birth control pill. It is recommended to be used after sexual intercourse, over a period of 72 hours, to achieve the goal of preventing (or ending) pregnancy. There are three different ways birth control pills are currently being promoted for this use: progesterone alone, estrogen alone, or both of these artificial steroids together.
These are the same steroids found in the typical birth control pill.
Where did this idea come from?
The idea of emergency contraception梠r a morning-after pill梚s based on a theory. Under this theory, if a woman has sexual intercourse and fears she may be pregnant, she can take large doses of birth control pills. If in fact the woman is pregnant when she takes these birth control pills, the high dosage could act to kill her preborn child梐 living human being. The only "emergency" in this case is the woman's fear of being pregnant.
There are at least two formulations of the birth control pill that are being marketed as "emergency contraceptives." Also, double doses (or more) of existing birth control pills are also prescribed (or self- administered) as "emergency contraception." Though no testing has been done to confirm the safety of these large doses of birth control pills for women (and very limited testing has been done on the specifically marketed "morning-after" pills), the Food and Drug Administration has approved this use.
How do emergency contraception/morning-after pills work?
The emergency contraceptive/morning-after pill has three possible ways in which it can work (as does the regular birth control pill):
1. Ovulation is inhibited, meaning the egg will not be released;
2. The normal menstrual cycle is altered, delaying ovulation; or
3. It can irritate the lining of the uterus so that if the first and second actions fail, and the woman does become pregnant, the human being created will die before he or she can actually attach to the lining of the uterus.
In other words, if the third action occurs, her body rejects the living human embryo, and the child will die. This result is a chemical abortion. (Abortion is an act of direct killing that takes the life of a living preborn human being梐 life that begins at fertilization.)
Is it safe?
Here are some of the side effects:
nausea
vomiting
infertility
breast tenderness
ectopic pregnancy (can be life threatening)
blood clot formation
Emergency contraception also offers no protection against sexually transmitted diseases including AIDS.
There are no long term studies to show whether women will be permanently damaged, or risk such diseases as cancer, from these chemicals being given in such high doses.
Sources:
A Consumer's Guide to the Pill and Other Drugs, by pharmacist/researcher John Wilks.
Infant Homicides Through Contraceptives, by pharmacist Bogomir Kuhar; 2nd edition, 1995.
Medical consultant: Stephen Spaulding, M.D. Dr. Spaulding is a board-certified family practitioner whose writings have appeared in a variety of medical journals.
[ Last edited by tyrande_81 at 19-10-2006 11:03 AM ] |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Originally posted by tyrande_81 at 19-10-2006 11:02 AM
What is it?
3. It can irritate the lining of the uterus so that if the first and second actions fail, and the woman does become pregnant, the human being created will die before he or she can actually attach to the lining of the uterus.
Morning pill pun bleh jadi seperti pill pengguguran jugak, kan?
Kalau kat drama2 US, lepas je ppuan tu kena rogol. Dier akan mintak 'pil' ini dari doktor. Kalau orang Islam kita, bleh tak kita buat mcm tu gak? (lepas kena rogol) |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Aku rasa kalau kena rogol ... tak pe.. Tak haram.
Tapi aku rasa baik ko tanya orang kat jbatan agama.
Bagi aku tak haram sebab dia buat seks bukan atas kemahuan. |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
hukum gugurkan kandungan dalam 2 bulan mengandung.
Apa hukumnya dan bolehkah sekiranya pasangan suami isteri tersebut menggugurkan anak di dalam kandungan yg berumur 2 bulan? Zaman sekarang ni dengan teknologi yg terkini bole mendapat tahu lebih awal keadaan kandungan di dalam perut ibu tersebut samaada cacat atau tidak, contoh Down sindrom.
Any info |
Rate
-
1
View Rating Log
-
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Mengikut pbacaan soal jwb agama,jika ibu ada masalah mengandung & ingin mguggurkan mesti mdpt pengesahan doktor Islam .If anak yg dikandung tu ada maslah kecacatan,tak pasti blh ke gugurkan. |
Rate
-
1
View Rating Log
-
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
kenapa hendak gugurkan kandungan...lagipon dlm usia 2 bulan, janin mmg tak sempurna lagi kecuali usia kandung 3 - 4 bln, |
|
|
|
|
|
|
| |
|